What's the longest period you went through without having sex (since losing your virginity)?

I haven't had sex for 4 months, and it's driving me crazy. I've never went this long without it. What about you guys? Any tips on how to calm the urge?
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  • I started having steady sex with girlfriends from the time I was 16. But I got a corporate job when I was 26 and, for various reasons, started gaining weight a couple years later. By my early 30s, I had gained almost 50 lbs. I didn't like myself and didn't want a girl who would want me. So I went through a dry spell for over five years. I was miserable. But I finally got used to my new corporate (as opposed to rock star) persona, went on Weight Watchers, started working out a lot, finally felt great about myself, and started dating again when I was 34. From then on, it was nonstop sex again. :-)

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  • From losing my virginity at 17 I had it once more after that. Then it wasn't until I was 24 that I had it again. I met up with a girl online and we had sex all weekend. Then I've had nothing since then apart from a short fling with a friend a few months ago. She gave me a few blowjobs.

    As to dealing with the urge? What else is there besides jerking off? I've also sexted a few people here and elsewhere so that helped a little as well lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • Is there a reason you've gone 4 months, by choice or in my case I've gone for up to 6 months, but currently on almost 4 months myself, because the guy I'm in a relationship right now. I don't want to scare him off, so waiting until we've been together longer. Probably by Feb or March if we are still together.

  • Longest time? I went 5 years without sex after losing my virginity. The last time I had sex was June 2017. So yeah, I'll probably pass my record lol.

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  • Nearly 6 months since my divorce.

    Ya I know. Crucified me now! I can fuck any willing girl LOL!

  • 12 months... which was only while I was deployed in the military to Iraq. Other than that, 6 months immediately following by first divorce, as started to figure out the dating game.. other than that never more than a few weeks.

  • From December 2019 to Nov 2020

    it was a right nightmare

  • It was also about 4 months for me. Fortunately things improved rapidly. During that 4 months I sure did a lot of daily (or more) masturbation.

  • Longest was 6 months and it sucked. Had to buy a lot of new toys during that time

  • 2 months

  • 1 year but im doing alright lol, as long as i can day dream about sex then that kind of keeps me going well

  • Why calm the urge? Get your favorite romance novel or movie or toy... and enjoy!

  • Two years. My choice. Married half the time. Pending divorce.

  • Don’t hold it, let’s just chat and masturbate

  • About 6 months

    • Really, were you ill

    • @lycanthrope3 it happened twice actually N yea once i wasn't well n once it was after a breakup

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  • 5 years. still going.

  • I never had sex lol 🎭

  • oh, I haven't lost my virginity yet so... 26 years :(

  • A week every month. Once her period gone, I immediately shoved up in her reckless and the way I bang up like jackrabbit until I was done 🤣 now the soreness days for her 😅 my bad

  • 12 years and not voluntarily.
    Its tough because I want sex.

  • 10 months, eventually I went and hoe my self to whoever flirted with me

  • 6months

  • Like 8 weeks after my wife gave birth

  • My most menstrual period.

    • Whats your body count?

    • @Luopio27 +30

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