What's your opinion on marital rape? Should someone really have to ask their spouse for consent before sex?

What's your opinion on marital rape? Should someone really have to ask their spouse for consent before sex?
I had some fights going on in a recent comment of mine. Some say its a big deal, others are saying its not a big deal.

by the way no I'm not getting raped by my husband. I give him the okay to do things to me when I'm sleeping.🤦‍♀️

This the question I commented on if your wondering
Did you feel satisfied after your most recent sexual encounter?
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  • Nah dude. Things happen spontaneously. You make a move and if they aren’t feeling it right now they let you know. You respect and communicate with each other, but not all communication is verbal. People on the internet these days act like they want forms signed in triplicate and notarized before they have sex. They’re fucking nutters that have been dehumanized by feminist brainwashing.

    • What has that to do with feminism? Marital rape is wrong

    • @shinka1y234 Learn to read. "Should someone really have to ask their spouse for consent before sex? "

    • Oh ok, if your partner force on you and fuck your asshole with a dildo against your will, you do not have a right to complain, yeah?

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  • Yes, permission must ALWAYS be granted before sex. That being said, if we are married then there is an expectation of sex. A spouse should not withhold sex all the time as a weapon to control the other spouse. For example, a woman withholding sex just because a man forgot to take out the trash after a long day at work is total bullshit. However, that does NOT mean he can demand sex from her. He just need to find a better wife and leave her needy ass.

  • I've never denied someone I'm with sex even once, so it's never come up.
    I'd say, if I'm your wife... then no, you don't need my consent. I consented when I said "I do".

    • I see where you are coming from but there has to be respect from him and if my husb sees Im not ready for sex at that moment and he forces me, that is wrong. and Im pretty sure the law would see it as rape. I dont think Id call the cops but I would be super angry

    • Lucky bas'#'#s

    • @IrishMann They are! You have no idea ;)

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  • No means no.

  • Yes even in marriage consent is needed. If you love them it wouldn't be a question

  • siii

  • It’s horrible. You still need to get their consent. If you Rape someone, even a spouse, you deserve to be killed.

  • 1) rape in a marriage is still rape
    2) do you have to ask your spouse for consent before sex? You don’t have to ask anyone you can generally start initiating and let them respond, at least in any scenario where it’s not inappropriate (ie a random stranger or workplace).
    3) legally I don’t think you can “give consent in advance” to a situation where you won’t be able to give/deny consent. Sleeping is probably more ambiguous here since one assumes people are likely to wake up during sex but you could consider a passed our scenario. Ethically I think if spouses want to do so it’s fine. From a legal standpoint it isn’t and that’s not because it IS rape but rather because it’s impossible to know with certainty the person hasn’t changed their mind. The law doesn’t want a scenario where “she said a year ago I could have sex with her asleep” and then she says “we had a huge fight and agreed to divorce and I woke up being hate fucked”. That said it’s almost a non issue legally as well since scenarios of “we had sex, disagree on the consent level” are virtually unprovable in any direction.

  • Well when you’re married you don’t always have to ask but if your spouse says no and you do it without her consent then yes it is rape

  • If you're okay with it it's fine but just because you're in a relationship/married doesn't mean they have your default consent 24/7.

  • I think you can reasonably assume consent in marriage, until it's withdrawn. That said, before trying anything "special", it's a good idea to ask about it first.

  • No, rape me, tie me against my will, let my mouth be your throne, let my willy be your toy and let my body be the ultimate orgasm object, fuck me and force me to cum inside you till my balls are drained... then go again.

    That was more erotica as per your request. Please inform me what that did to your lady parts?

  • Marital rape must be every girl's dream.

  • Depends on the couple.
    When I get married at that point my partner will know me well enough physically mentally emotionally to know what type of mood I'm in to know or judge whether I want sex or not. If I'm too tired or to stressed for example. That being said if he's my mate, he will know what to do to get me out of that state and turn me on

  • Don't get married and that will solve that crap.

  • Same judgment as non martial Rape.
    I don't see any difference..
    Married or not married.. Consent is essential..
    By my definition.
    Consent is real marriage...
    In Animal kingdom.. Consent exists marriage doesn't...
    Consent with her each time and then go wild with her. And remember she has right to take away the consent back in middle of the act.. Anytime she wants on her free will..

  • If a man has to seek consent, it is not much of a marriage.
    Some women want to taken forcefully.
    The first girl with whom I had sex was very experienced. She introduced me to many things, which included that she could not cum unless she could convince herself that she was being raped.
    For her to enjoy the sex, I had to grab her and take what I wanted, regardless of her struggles and protests. The more that she fought and said 'no', the more that she wanted it and enjoyed it.
    That was one hell of an introduction to sex at the age of 19.
    Blanket rules cannot be applied to sex with validity, because there is such a huge variation in female sexuality.

    • So she should aldways give even, if she does not want it

  • Absolutely ridiculous. I'm very disappointed that you've nurtured this topic. Stop trying to nerf the God damn world and scare every man into her taking a POO

    • Did you say you're into number two? I'm really hoping I didn't understand your comment.

    • People are turning things that should be solved within the family or couple, and instead having ech-chambered idiots answer these important questions. Well they don't have ur answer they have very little experience in life. I wanna know why you aren't resolving the origin of the problem and find out why you're so uninterested and no desire to make love with ur man. Um. And i mean do it while you're awake rather than permit him to lol jack off while u sleep. U both think this is how its supposed to go as a couple?

    • maybe her pussy is on strike because she can't get off with a minute man on top.

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  • People act all dumb. Just ignore them, especially if your marriage is solid.

  • I don't know, I have mixed feelings on this.
    I understand why it's considered "rape", but I think once they've already had consensual sex, than anything that happens after that, isn't really rape. It's just her, "Not being in the mood." Which I think he should be respectful of, but I really don't think it's the same as rape, and shouldn't be prosecuted as such.
    But if it becomes a continuing occurrence, she should charge him for "domestic violence"
    But I really don't understand how you can "rape" someone, who's already consented to having sex with you.

    • Rape is rape

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