What would be a deal breaker sexually?

What's the one thing that if your partner won't do it, you'd probably end up leaving them?
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  • If she wasn't enthusiastic about sex, or, I suppose, if we weren't having intercourse at all. Otherwise, there's no one thing that, by itself, is a deal-breaker.

  • Get pregnant. If they don't want kids; I don't want them.

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  • At first I thought... If he doesn't want or like kids but I realize he would never manage to get into the bedroom with me because I would never date someone like that.
    Another thing I would have an issue with a man with a very low to almost non existenting sex drive.
    If he's not respectful careful or gentle would be a problem too. Im not into causing pain or being hurt in the bedroom. I won't stay with a man who feels entitled and who expects me to sleep with him whenever he says so as if it is a chore. If he's quick to anger becomes manipulative over demanding Im done.

    • Actually, you sound very easy to please. Most guys would love a lady like you.

  • Selfishness in bed.
    Being too soft and/or submissive.
    Not respecting boundaries.

  • Having a penis.
    Also, anal.

  • I don't think there would be anything specific in sexual terms that would cause me to leave, granted no sex long-term would be difficult, but If talked about, it wouldn't have to be a dealbreaker

  • Not going down on me would be a deal breaker

  • Her penis.

  • Hmm, that's a tough one really, I'm not sure that anything other than completely no sex would be an actual deal-breaker. I definitely wouldn't be very happy if she didn't suck dick and I'd be disappointed if she didn't do anal but I could live with it depending on the rest of the relationship.

  • Cuck play or pegging

    • You mean if she would want to do that or if she wouldn't be into it?

    • Wanted too

    • Are you a cuck?

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  • Eat Pussy. He has to lick it to stick it

    • That’s not true women are very rapable😂

    • My favorite meal. Looks great, tastes great, and non filling. Ready to eat again right after the first meal!

  • Hmmm. Tough one. Probably just oral.

    I never wanted threesomes or anal or other things. I just wanted her to have a high drive and to be available often and be an exuberant participant.

    If she never wanted to give and receive orally I may not be able to do that long term.

  • If the girl isn't willing to deepthroat, let me cum on her face, let me be really aggressive like with spanking and maybe a little choking, or at least try those, then that would definitely turn me off. I only do stuff the girl is okay with, but if she absolutely says no to me, then we aren't sexually compatible and I'm out.

  • Can't say i have had many deal breakers, except one. But it wasn't what she wouldn't do. Its what she wanted me to do.

    We had dated for a year, sex was good. Day to days was easy with her. Then one day during sex she pulled a stiletto switch blade out from under a pillow and handed it to me. She asked me to cut her thigh, i pulled out, told her thanks for a fun year and walked away.

    As a side note, she already had two cuts on her thighs that she blamed on shaving. Found out they were from the guy she had on the side.

    Either way, that was the only time i have declined a request in bed, so counts as a dealbreaker to me.

    • Agreed. Cutters need not apply!

  • Given how much my wife and I have done over the years, nothing would be a deal breaker at this point even after dry spells that have occasionally happened

  • Not being open to my kinks on the odd occasion. Not all the time, just now and then.

  • All kinds of sex...

    Oral, anal, vaginal..

  • I don't think I could marry an asexual. Nothing against them; we just wouldn't be a match.

  • A lack of oral sex.

  • As long as she’ll wait until marriage, nothing.

  • 1. Anything to do with oral, anal, or period sex; or any other degrading stuff.
    2. The sight of a thong, a tattoo, or a body piercing.
    3. Any third party or the use of any tape or socmed capable device.

    • What is socmed?

    • @Jamie05rhs it stands for "SOCial MEDia".

    • @Dchrls78104. Oh. Are you basically saying that you don't want your sessions to be recorded and shared with others?

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  • I don’t think I have a thing…. As long as I can get off I’m open to whatever.

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