Whats something during sex you were very reluctant to try but once you did you really enjoyed?

I feel like asking a sexual type question for once.

this Could be any fetish or anything you were initially either disgusted, thought it might be too painful, or just felt you might not be very comfortable doing but then you tried it once or twice and ended up really liking it.

for instance: Anal, rimjobs, leather, wax play, anything.
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  • When I first got in to the BDSM scene, some things were different should we say.

    As a young Dom you are very reliant on more experienced subs to pretty much teach you.

    it’s their kink you are exploring and learning.

    Edge play took some getting used to especially when coupled with CNC, it takes a lot of thought to add in variation and keep it active and alive.

    My first girlfriend that was in to primal play (and kitten play) was different, while I had bitten and been bitten, I had never really bitten / bruised someone all over. We both got very much into it and carried away (it happens), when the session ended, I think if we had of went outside I would have been arrested, some serious marking etc.

    i felt really guilty, However my girlfriend comforted me and explained it’s what she wanted, we kept at it and refined things to make it more Hunter v prey.

    There is some other stuff but sooo not putting that down lol

    @harleigh90 🩸🩸

    • @ChrisMaster69 👅 Yearning for some tea! 🤤

    • @Harleigh90 do you want dirty chocolate hobnobs with that?

    • @ChrisMaster69 Never had a dirty hobnob 🤣 but you know I'll try anything. Go easy, I might use our safe word.. 🙊

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  • Not reluctant as I'll do anything but this story kinda fits.

    So my first girlfriend one day while sucking my cock asked if I wanted to try cuming on her tits for a change. This is something I'd seen in porn but wasn't something that interested me as I was all about the swallow but I thought hey it ticks a box so I said yes. As soon as my cum splattered on her beautiful 32D's a fetish was born. Now I'd much rather give a cumshot than a creampie and my most watched porn category is cumshots.

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  • Breath play. The thought of it was emotionally painful, but once that emotional connection was built up I was able say let's do it, that release was a lot more then sexual lol.
    From there it was a crave for that same feeling, limits was a fear too but slowly pushed the with edge play, blood play, cnc.

    • Never tried it before hmm 🤔

    • @Still-alive Never know you might like it 🤷‍♀️

    • I trust you ;)

  • What in tf is wax play?

    I haven't tried anything that I didn't wanna try.

    • Dripping hot wax on another’s body. Yup its a thing

    • I just...

    • Lol best not to think of it too much. Im not into pain myself tbh

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  • 1) bj - initially thought it was immoral. But after tried, never gave up, not even been warned will go to hell LOL!

    2) rim - never thought I'd ever go that far. But after I tried, and had an orgasm when licking her butt hole (boooo!) I never stopped.

    3) butt plugged - never thought I'd ever buy one. Then I did. From then on, it's part of me LOL!

  • Letting him watch me masturbate, too self conscience at first but now its pretty easy.

  • Nothing honestly. When i say im not about it, im not about it

  • Cucking my husband. It's freaking scary at first. And fisting, that was scary too
    I enjoy doing both now though.

    • How big is your husband and how big are the bulls

    • Hubby is a decent size. Average. My bull is exceptionally big. Is a fun lifestyle

    • I'm a cuck myself

  • Posing for pictures

  • Nothing since I've never had sex. By 2024 or 2025 I might be able to answer this question.

  • Yeah 2 recent things:
    1. my girlfriend and I were opposed to anal play of any kind but we both tried it out and really enjoyed. We added anal into the mix from time to time.

    2. threesomes used to sound ridiculous to me but was approached by a friend who asked to join my girlfriend and I…I was apprehensive but my girlfriend jumped on it…I eventually agreed and glad I did. Was a fun adventurous time for all and would do it again, only the same group

    • You sound like a really fun and nice guy. Definitely must be confident to share your girlfriend with your friends but I bet she appreciates it big time! We're the same way and I do enjoy getting to feel other men. Variety is fun!

    • I agree that's the way to go about it. Both talking about it and agreeing together.

    • In regards to sharing my girl with a friend. I'm not into that. We've had threesomes both MMF, FFm both times they were with people we met. I don't want to add friends into my sex life. So we actually entertained it by meeting somebody online chatting and going through it that way. I don't want friends or neighbors to be in my sexual life.

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  • Double stuffing a girl with another guy,

    she takes bolth of us in the mouth. Or pussy at the same time.

    Or having sex with her after another guy fills her with sperm.

    i use to not like the idea, Until, The right girl turned me on to it and. Convinced me to try it.

  • Anal, restraints, choking,

  • Spurs. For when you need to give him that loving nudge for that extra half inch.

    • Lol 😂

  • Oral seemed awkward at first but I enjoyed it almost immediately. I was very reluctant with anal and it took a few times before I enjoyed it. Not tried most other things mentioned here like wax or posing but those would make me nervous.

    • @graceful05 I would avoid the wax, you need proper candles as normal ones melt at too high a temperature. It’s something to work up to and a lot is definitely for experienced people (trust is huge thing)

    • @ChrisMaster69 Not something I’ll try anytime soon

    • @graceful05 lol big thumbs up lol While some of the stuff here is fun, it’s only fun for those crazy enough to try it lol

  • sex itself... lol

    I had not planned nor looked for any of it to happen when it did, but it did happen, feelings happened

  • Anal play.

  • Oh i have a long list 😁
    Prostate vibrator, gloves, penis ties/cage, ruined orgasm, hot wax drops, whipping and more

  • Penatrarion.
    I was stuck on hj for a long time

  • Never had sex but I would like a girl to let me watch her masturbate

  • Everything

    • Is there anything you haven’t tried yet?

    • Lots lol that I still wanna try yes

  • Rim jobs

    • mmm ;)

    • isn't it fun

  • Getting fuck in my ass with a strapon

  • I was nervous about doing analysis with a woman for the first time. Once I felt how good it was I was hooked

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