When did you first want sex? and how long after that until you first actually had sex?

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Paul_in_Indy · Accepted Answer

I started masturbating very early. I couldn’t tell you when, exactly, but I was definitely rubbing myself in the bathroom when I was in kindergarten. So, five years old, or earlier. I associated that pleasurable feeling with girls. I wanted to see girls naked. I wanted to touch girls. I wanted them to touch me. …but I didn’t want sex. I was a farm boy, so I understood how sex worked. I found the idea that pretty gross when I was young p.

When I was maybe eight or nine, I fooled around naked with a girl. She touched my penis but didn’t want to play with it. I rubbed it against her, and she let me, but she didn’t like it. So, I stopped.

When I was maybe eight or nine, I fooled around naked with a girl. She touched my penis but didn’t want to play with it. I rubbed it against her, and she let me, but she didn’t like it. So, I, dry reluctantly, stopped. It was a very long time after that before I had any sexual contact.

When I was 11 years old, in the fifth grade, I started to regularly “jerk off;” stroking a hard penis to ejaculation. I definitely wanted to have penetrative sex, at that point.

When I was 13, I made out with a girl -in the woods, in the dark, during a Halloween hayride. We groped each other, over and under the clothes, and she spent a lot of time touching my penis, but no orgasm occurred. After this, I desperately wanted sex! I really, really wanted sex.

When I was 14, I had sex for the first time. That was penetrative sex, to completion, multiple times. I have been happily having sex, at basically every opportunity, since then.

So, I don’t know. I may have waited 10 whole years? Or maybe I only really waited 10 months or so?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I *wanted* sex as early as 11, but I had no illusions that I had any chance of getting it. I finally managed to get sex at 15 - which is younger than most, but at the time it already seemed like I'd been waiting forever. 4 years is a LONG time to a 15-year-old!

weysally · Accepted Answer

I was 12 when I first teased some boys, no sex, I was just over 15 when I got felt for the first time, and I felt him, I was nearly 16 when I had my first full sex, which on that day I experienced nearly all that sex could give me excluding anal

juliammm · Accepted Answer

I think I was 13 or 14 when I started to be interested in sex. But I only had sex in my late 15, I was almost 16. I prepared it to be as I wanted it to be. I planned it.

Sour-rose · Answer

when i was 34... I had brown hair I believe and- Oh wait, does past lives count? Because my current one i'm living; sex is a thing for mortals.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

I wanted sex when I was 10/11, but didn't actually have it until I was 18.

summiter · Answer

I started masturbating around 12 or so and I think by 13 or 14 I wanted sex but zi knew it was not going to happen. I had to wait until I was a few months before I turned 18 to have sex and it was wonderful. However there was a lot of masturbation before that. As you know all younger guys masturbate frequently but most will never admit it. What about you?

irifebeck · Answer

I never really 'wanted' to have sex, I was curious about it but was never too particularly interested about it, I think I was like maybe 12-13 and I actually had sex when I was like 14.

ZackBan · Answer

11 is when I learned about the birds and the bees and had my first 11 years later at the ripe age of 22.
A late bloomer I know but I can honestly say I'm all caught up 2 years later in terms of experience

mandyfire98 · Answer

I was 14 but I didn't lose my virginity until I was 16.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

See so this has been the thing I’ve always been confused about. I don’t know how much I actually thought about sex until having it. Most guys Al start dreaming about sex from the first time they realize that their thing is designed to go in to a girls body… May have had a few thoughts about that here and there starting at 15 but I really don’t remember. I know however that I thought about how beautiful the girls skin was and how sexy their breasts looked and then I had a girl I worked with introduce me to the wonders of an awesome ass. I couldn’t think straight every time I was with her because she loved shaking that thing. But then I was thinking about feeling it and licking it not pegging it… I was 23 when I finally had sex

SnowedIn · Answer

I first wanted sex when I was 11. First had sex at 14.

Paige90 · Answer

I first started thinking about it when I was 12 but didn't do it until I was 14.

Finchie40 · Answer

I actually didn’t have a choice considering I was molested at a young age , the fucked up thing is I actually enjoyed it cuz I didn’t know any better. I ended up having sex with her daughter at the age of 13 she was my age as well , we didn’t date we just had sex , I always wondered if she was molested as well? but my first actual relationship sex was with my girlfriend at the time in junior high I was 15 when I first experienced relationship sex

JDavid25 · Answer

I believe I first wanted sex at about 9 or 10 vaguely.. I liked hitting girls buttsat that age.. And it wouldn't until my 20s when I actually first had it..

Dargil · Answer

I had sexual feelings at 13 but no PIV until 19.

RealMarek · Answer

Maybe around age 14. I had to wait over ten years.

Moose304 · Answer

I was 14 my first time. The girl was 23 years old and we were returning from a group trip to Atlanta. It was about 2 AM and we stopped on an exit on I 85 about 45 minutes north of I 285. Remember this was 1972. It was a blanket in the grass out of sight of the traffic. It was a weird set of circumstances that had us alone in the car. For years I thought I was the luckiest guy in my school. Think of it this way, remember the movie Porkys? Remember how peewee had a crush on that gym teacher? Well in my case I got her. I now know and understand I was victimized by a pedophile. It's funny how the passage of time changes and alters experiences and how they are remembered!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm not sure when I first wanted it, maybe when I was anywhere from 8 to 12. When I first got it was 3 weeks before I turned 25. Women can hold it FOR EVER!!! (Open plumbing.)

exitseven · Answer

I probably wanted it in high school sometime. Maybe 16 I waited until I was 22.

that1guy19 · Answer

I was 16. My girlfriend and j just kinda randomly talked about it and tried a few things before knee night having sex. It wasn't really something I craved until we did it then it became a regular thing when we were together

Kabluie · Answer

I think it was more around 13 when I unintentionally turned myself on while almost asleep and noticed the pleasure of cumming. I had started dating the girlfriend towards the end of that year and we were several months into 14 when we took each other's v-card. We were both in after school activities and our parents weren't always home until much later, and having slept in the same bed together for a bit worked up to going all the way.