When is it OK to withdraw consent for sex?

I'm keeping gender out of this.

You have one group that says you can't withdraw consent once given. I get where they are coming from but it's simply wrong. You have one group that says you can withdraw consent at any time. Which I agree with, then you have this other group that says you can withdraw consent at any time even 10 years later after the fact. Which is correct until you mention after the fact. In my opinion you cannot consent to sex, have sex, and later, after its done, a day, a week, a year or a decade later decide you regret it and call it rape..
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To that odd guy, if your intent on my questions is to insult me or call me a rapist, rather than offer a sincere and logical response, I don't want you commenting on my questions, your comment has been removed for that reason. Do better.
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  • I think you can withdraw anytime, but be reasonable. If your partner is super fking horny you may have to ask a couple of times and give them a few seconds

  • up to the point of penetration.
    this is what separates us from the animals.

  • It can happen ANYTIME before the sex ends. Any withdrawal of consent means that sex after such a withdrawal is rape.

  • You can withdraw it at any point. What you can't do is take back consent retroactively. If you consented to sex yesterday, you can't today say you never gave consent.

  • both should be sign paper before doing it , easy

  • You have up until a nipple presents itself, after that it's fair game.

  • Before it's too late for him to pull out.

  • at any moment... you can during if you don't want to continue

    • Yeah but what about after, Say a day, a week, or a year or more?

  • Every encounter can be refused... even if you've been having sex for 15 years... you can Say NO...

  • sounds sketchy

  • Whenever you want to obviously

  • right in the middle of it then sue for rape. Believe all women always.

  • yes it is oke

  • During but you must let your partner know.

    • During is the latest

  • No. “Consent” is only see as a thing women can give or take away, and the majority of the time when a female “withdraws” consent, it is not vocalized and often times after the act is finished and she has regret.
    It is just a way for women to retrofit false modesty and morals and destroy a guys life.

  • If you let him go in you have to let him cum.

  • Only during sex not after it’s done

    • Agreed