When it comes to sex what do MEN believe is average?

We get so many questions on here from guys asking about penis sizes, sex timings, number of orgasms etc. But what do you guys think is really normal?
Forget what you see in porn or what your girlfriend told you. I'm sure you've seen umpteen articles saying the average size is 5inches or girls don't care.

But do you buy it? It's time to put your cards on the table, what do you think is truly average/normal:-
1) Penis size.
2) Penis size we women actually want.
3) time sex (from Penetration) lasts.
When it comes to sex what do MEN believe is average?
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  • Average size: 15-16 cm
    Women's real size: 18 cm or bigger
    Time sex: 20 minutes or longer

  • I would say 6 to 7 inches is an average penis size. 10 inches penis are only found in porn.

    Good sex should last at least a half an hour. Starting off with kissing and slowly getting started.

    As to timing. It is damn near impossible to orgasm at the same time.

  • Average penis 5.5. girl probably wants 7inches but probably would prefer a girthy 5.5. probably want sex to last 15 minutes

  • Average penis size is probably actually between 5.5 and 7. So 5 and 7.5 are still pretty common
    I think women prefer between 5.75 and 7 in length.
    I don't have a time estimate for how long sex lasts, because a lot of factors change it.

    • average size is between 5 and 6

    • @johnsmall23 there has been no macrostudy on erect penises recently

  • I think 6” is average

  • 1. 5 to 6 inches.
    2. Variable depending on the woman's size inside, but I think most would say like 6 or 7 inches.
    3. Very variable depending on how much control and stamina the people involved have and what they intend to do going into it.

  • 5 1/2 inches
    5 1/2 to 6 inches
    10 minutes depending on how old relationship is.

  • I would say in the 5-6” range. I am fortunate in having 8” and very, very thick. In that girls tell other girls what a great fuck I am that I have unknown girls calling or texting me that they would like to out with me. I have learned to control my orgasms so can last 45-60 mins. It all depends on how much a girl cums before I cum.

  • I think there is a wide variety to those questions.
    What may me normal for one woman, can be the biggest she’s ever seen to another.
    It’s up to personal choice!
    I am very satisfied with what I have. As far as time, I’ve lasted 4 hours several times, without pills, creams, pumps... just what nature gave me.

  • 1.) 5 inches
    2.) 6-7 inches
    3.) 10-15 min

  • 1. Around 5 - 6 inches

    2. 10 inches

    3. 2 minutes

  • 6 inches 5 minutes

  • this question is excellent. I read a lot about sex, but they are readings from qualified people, doctors. according to studies the average size of a penis is 5 to 6 inches. the porn industry sells an illusion that everything a man has to be like a horse and women have to moan and climb the walls when having an orgasm. this is an illusion that haunts everyone. as a great magician said: what matters is not the size of the wand, but the magic that it is capable of doing. what is really important is each one accepting himself as he is and making the other happy, loved, desired.

    • I have no way of saying how long it takes me. in sex there is an exchange of sensations, feelings, caresses. I am not a machine that I spend an eternity to ejaculate. the most important thing is to have the sensitivity to take the girl to the fullness of pleasure. to be able to look into her eyes and see happiness. I am very happy with my penis size, I don't have any complain by the girls

  • Its not the size as you know its more the love mixed into the size for her pleasure. Most women do not want a big fat dick

  • 1. 7 inches
    2. 8-9 inches minimum
    3. Anywhere from 2 minutes to 3 hours

  • I think the average penis length for men is 5 inches.

  • Five and a half inches to six inches is average penis size.

    Women want no bigger than eight inches in my experience.

    • Also didn't see the last one because it turned into an emoji. Time that women want sex, assuming you mean the actual intercourse part. Ten minutes should be fine.

  • I'm 6.3 inches and i got good feedbacks, i think it's a good size
    About 30-45 min

  • Around 6 inches and most women want around that because it’s not small or too big that it will hurt

  • Mine is 7.5” long and 5.5” diameter.
    The average male penis in western society is 5.8” for whites and 6.2” for blacks (basically just as many black dicks are small as white dicks are large)

    Sex for me lasts as long ad I want it to usually. I have to try really really hard to cum and most times I just go until she is done.

    On average it’s apparently 20mins or so.

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