When to tell someone you're dating that you have ugly boobs?

Serious question here.

I'd post a pic if it would be possible and acceptable but it isn't.

I have kind of accepted them but I'm still unsure of how to proceed in this situation.

My boobs are quite assymetrical, strange shape and also I have large areolas.

It's really a bad case.
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  • Girl i think the same about mine but my man LOVES them. You may see them as a bad case but other people may love them!! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder n all that...
    There is nothing wrong with your breast from as what you have described, they sound pretty normal! I wouldn't tell him unless something comes to happen. If he wants to see them just tell him you feel rather insecure about them, start by letting him "see" them in the dark etc. I hope this has helped but girl be prod of them and i'm sure they're perfectly fine:)

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  • Is it such a big deal? That's kind of a Q for younger guys. I had one colleague who kept talking about he disliked big areolas on women but he's an antisocial dork who slept with prostitutes and bragged about it. He's not the type of guy most women date in the first place. He doesn't seem to understand anything more than a pornographic idea of women.

  • Are they really ugly, or is it just the way you perceive them?

    • They really are. As I said, assymetrical, large areolas... also I'm very pale so the veins show a bit too. And they are far from perky, rather saggy (maybe because of they're size, it's 32E) but honestly I've seen girls with bigger breasts that have them fully real and perky.

    • And nipps barely point straight, let alone up.

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  • If he loves you then he won't care about the shape. He will love you for being you.

    • And I don't think you should present it as problem. Is it disease? No it isn't. Does it influence your health? No it doesn't. So let him notice naturally. After all he is dating you as a human being and not as a perfectly symmetrical robotic doll, right?

  • I do not think there is any such thing as ugly boobs

  • No guy cares about shape or size

    • This is a big fat lie

  • It would not matter to me.

  • Do not say anything about them. They are not ugly.

  • Guys look at the entire picture not just small details. Most likely he will just be glad to see them.

  • I highly doubt you have anything to worry about. Boobs are awesome. Even the worst boobs are still boobs. If you want actual opinion on yours dm, but i honestly think you are just being hard on yourself and likely have nothing to worry about.

  • Nobody's gonna leave you because you have "ugly" boobs if that's what you're thinking

  • Look, if he cares about you, then the boobs are a tiny thing he won't care about. If it's enough for him to dislike you over, really, he's not worth caring about.

  • Yea ok

    When to tell someone you're dating that you have ugly boobs?
  • if your nipples are large who would care

  • I don't think it's ever a good idea. You ever heard someone saying there is someone made for everyone. And the beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Human bodies are far from perfect and they can be lot out of symmetry. I like to see what you have.

  • Ugly boobs? U. G. L. Y. Boobs? Unless you have had trauma or very old I don't think they are. As to when to mention this? When you're ready to. (I would be interested to see those for educational purposes)

  • Wouldn't know without seeing sorry

  • I doubt most guys would be able to tell, or care

  • You think large areola's are bad? I prefer them.
    Breasts are like ice cream. It's ice cream! Even the worst ice cream is still good because it's ice cream!
    I doubt it's as bad as you think it is.

  • That sounds good to me.🤷🏼‍♂️