When you first have sex with a new partner are you always nervous or is it just excitement?

For me it's always a mixture of both. No matter how confident I am I always still feel a bit of nervousness.
When you first have sex with a new partner are you always nervous or is it just excitement?
Nervous
Vote A
Excitement only
Vote B
A mixture of both.
Vote C
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  • It was most excitement... more so overly excited as I would have a super quick trigger those "first times" lol... but then would get much better :)

  • I don’t usually get nervous

  • excitement, once experienced it's second nature

  • It is always more excitement than anything else.

  • Mostly excitement because I have an agenda and that agenda is to make her feel things she’s never felt before.

  • I don't play with anyone, but whenever I decided then get excited and fully engaged with enjoyment.

  • For me definitely a bit of both, but probably more excited than anxious. Obviously excited to have sex, but also a little anxious because I want to make sure she enjoys it too!

  • nervous, but I don't suffer with a soft willy ;)

  • Mixture of both

    • Don't be nervous sweetheart

    • @CubaPirate you make me nervous

    • Just relax and enjoy the ride sex bomb 💣

  • Mixture of both

  • A bit of both. Exciting to explore someone new, but also a little anxious too

  • What's sex, what's a relationship?

  • I'm never nervous or excited. I always hoped for the best but expected the worse. I'm pretty confident and I always tried to make sure she was comfortable with me. I gave her the respect that she deserves and I was always polite. I always paid for everything we did whenever we went out

  • Yes, as a guy I feel like I'm in the spotlight sometimes... But I'm so excited too, first time and everything.

  • Definitely a mixture of both

  • Neither. I'm just interested in her being comfy.

  • I was probably more nervous my first time and luckily she said I did fantastic but she said I can teach you better at some things. Now usually I and more excited than nervous but if it's a new girl I am going to have sex with I am like 70% excited and 30% nervous.

  • Mix of both

  • Both as a matter of facts

  • voted c

    • I'm the same

    • 🐰🙌

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