When you first have sex with a new partner are you always nervous or is it just excitement?

For me it's always a mixture of both. No matter how confident I am I always still feel a bit of nervousness.
When you first have sex with a new partner are you always nervous or is it just excitement?
Nervous
Vote A
Excitement only
Vote B
A mixture of both.
Vote C
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  • If I got nervous, I wouldn’t have sex.

  • I'm waiting marriage

  • This is a great question b/c I feel a mixture of excitement/horniness and nervousness to an extent. It's a new partner so you want to be on the same page so it's not awkward. Nothing that a couple of drinks can't cure to make it smoother.

  • Just excitement for me. I’m so hard, can hardly wait to get in her and make her cum multiple times.

    • Thank you for the Like

    • @jerre you can make a girl cum multiple times? Let’s just see about that, okay?

    • @Jennz6 3 hours in bed kissing, hugging, sucking your nipples, fingering, eating you and then my cock before I eat you again, you’d be out of energy after cumming so much.

  • I'm a mixture of both, but more excitement than nervousness, because my relationships usually take a while to percolate (I'm ND!). Therefore, by the time sex is on the table, I usually know my partner quite well, and so there isn't nearly as much nerves as there is excitement! YAAAAYYYY! Of course, sometimes people just click and you're like a house on fire! Did someone light your fire recently?

  • A bit of both for me.

  • Excitement

  • Nervous

  • I am never nervous when I'm with a woman I just met I think it's an amazing experience full of passion and adventure

  • Nervousness and excitement

  • Definitely a bit of both comes into play

  • Both

  • I maybe anxious but never nervous

  • I was so excited I screw her all night

  • It has been a while since I had a new partner but I would say excitement!

  • never really thought about

  • Nervous 10% excited 80% scared 10% but it's the Nervous part when it comes to something or someone new that actually makes the entire experience way hotter. I Blame an old gfs mom for that.

  • Well I have only ever had one partner in bed, my wife.

  • Very very nervous!!

    Would you mind chatting?

    weve talked before actually..

  • It's excitment and anticipation

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