Who should get off first during sex, in your opinion?

[mrfoox]

I had an argument about this with a guy a few days ago, so I am curious to hear from others. Share your thoughts with me

[AmandaYVR]

With this wording I voted C - I don't care who's first, but maybe I voted wrong because in general I'd rather be second because I don't want to have sex anymore afterwards. I'm relaxed, and sensitive down there, and just want to chill. It's feels anticlimactic (literally) to keep going after that. I'm done.
And p. s. it's a turn-on when the guy cums, that's fun for me too, so I benefit too.

[ArrowheadSW]

Yeah I've felt that way before also. When you're done it is like you are too relaxed to keep going.

[AmandaYVR]

@ArrowheadSW Yes, exactly. Seems to me, continuing beyond that is not taking full advantange of the feeling. It doesn't get any better than that. Might as well relish it.

[ArrowheadSW]

Yes drawing it out intensifies it also.

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmandaYVR even if the woman finishes first, though, she wouldn't have to wait long. The dude is most likely right behind her (figuratively) (though maybe literally as well, but that's beside the point.). Also, when her body starts to contract, I don't see how he would be able to keep from coming at that point. Her vagina would literally "jerk" it out of him (for lack of a better word.)

[Jasmin0701]

The best thing is, of course, if both the male and female come at the same time. Otherwise, it doesn't matter who comes first, because it has both advantages and disadvantages.

[razelove]

Most of the time I can get the woman I'm with off before I do, if I can't I'll keep going until I either get there, or realize I'm just not the key for that lock.

Sometimes it takes a lot of time and practice to get some women off, no two ways about it. The longest I've had there was one year because she was really anxious and much more worried about pleasing me than herself.

[JGOG7in]

I bet you she has a vibrator in your drawer

[razelove]

@JGOG7in Yeah, I bought them. If you have an objective, why make it more difficult to obtain?

[DOGMA1954]

Women take much longer to reach climax. Men only take a few minutes. Men need to have more foreplay and let women relax and enjoy themselves.

[JGOG7in]

I disagree why some women take a long time to have a climax it's because they use a vibrator on their clip which desensitizes there clitoris

[AmandaYVR]

@JGOG7in That's one reason, but not the only reason. (What are the other reasons? I don't know. Anatomy, mental/emotional.)

[mat_username]

Both should enjoy. Does not matter how that happens

[Apple1996]

Defo the women

[Glenn603]

Whenever i`m with a girl i will always let her have her orgasm first and i`ll have mine second

[ecfresh]

She comes first

[boggboss]

Asking as both finish and enjoy it that's all that matters

[JGOG7in]

You sound like a genius

[boggboss]

Mist shit I say I would think was common sence lol

[LemiaOfTheCodes]

It depends on one pleasureable thorshold.

[TCredo]

i always want her to cum first and last :)

[Browneye57]

Any guy worth his salt ALWAYS gets her off first. Cuz once he's done, it's over.

[one1wild00]

I try and get the Woman off at least once during foreplay so once I slide in her my first pent up shot can be right away then it's luck of the draw as to who's next.

[Dchrls78104]

If I were having sex with a woman, I would hope to fulfil my fantasy of her getting the first orgasm, or both of us simultaneously.

[Steve37]

Ideally it's at the same time but as long as both do, it doesn't matter too much.

[CuriousMufuxka]

The man because obvious. I happen to have an "oversized member" and still haven't on most occasions been able to make her cream. Straight up, a guy can make a chick cum if her mind is in the right place, it's more of a mindjob than the dicking.

[JGOG7in]

Sorry I disagree a woman's mind cannot make her have an orgasm

[AmandaYVR]

Rofl. I've been around on earth a while, and I have never heard the word "dicking." You made it into a verb!! Thanks for the laugh. You should start a crusade, getting that into the popular vernacular. And so I might as well reply to the other part of what you wrote... yes you are right a girl's mind has to be in the right place. But also, even under all the right conditions, a very high number will never cum vaginally (I read once 40% but can't remember if that was 40% do or don't, that method.)

[CuriousMufuxka]

@AmandaYVR I heard dicking in the 90's.. Otherwise it's rather bold for someone that blocked me over religious beliefs to unblock and reply. I remain Agnostic.

[AmandaYVR]

Nothing to do with religious beliefs. I'm atheist.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@AmandaYVR Just about blocking at your convenience. Fuck off.

[AmandaYVR]

Well I can see you're just as much of an asshole as ever. Fuck you too. P. S. I must have been in a really good mood when I read your comment because I don't think it's funny at all anymore. My bad.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@AmandaYVR Block again bitch. Take your moods and shove them right up your twat.

[AmandaYVR]

Congratulations. You've reminded me NOT to give people a second chance, the benefit of the doubt, or to ever argue with people that people can change. Long live the blocking system. It exists for scum like you. I hope your fellow man sees proof of why women learn to hate and the gender war exists. You made your bed. Now go and lie in it by yourself.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@AmandaYVR You were the piece of shit in the first place.

[AmandaYVR]

I don't remember why I blocked you, but you are reminding me there was just cause.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@AmandaYVR You got butthurt over religion and copy/pasted a retarded chart of atheists and agnostics. I made fun of said chart and then you talked shit and blocked. It was at least nice this time to return the favor.

[AmandaYVR]

I think you've got me mixed up with someone else. I don't have any charts like that. I would remember that. I have no interest in religion. I stay away from religion on here, and though I've had religious friends I've never got in arguments with them about it irl. Beliefs are beliefs. I have very negative associations with your u/n, but the only things I remember specifically is you hate Vox and ages ago we pm'd for a bit and you got pissy. Those two things alone wouldn't make me block though. I probably just read a bunch of stuff you commented to other people.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@AmandaYVR Um, I know nothing of vox.. Perhaps you're right about the chart thing though. Also I believe you're thinking about someone else in the pm department, I have every message since starting this channel. Right on for not blocking me, I'll take my negativity elsewhere.

[AmandaYVR]

This is the weirdest, most erratic conversation ever.

Your Vox comment.
Who or what is your favourite person or channel to follow on Youtube? ↗

I think our pm's got deleted. They were a long time ago.
From site tech: "After messages pass 3 months, they are automatically deleted. For a brief period of time, messages over a month were deleted, but that issue has since been resolved."

[CuriousMufuxka]

@AmandaYVR I said not Vox. There had to have been conversation between me showing love for LPL and that statement. Oh. big surprise, your question.. Anyway I'm very open and if I hate something, I will make it very apparent! We did not PM. Ever. There's a little setting called: Allow messages only from people I follow. One of the first things selected when I created this account. After following the 6 that were still around from early 2017.

[DanOh2018]

Hmm lady first before penetration usually goes well in my opinion

[bklynbadboy1]

Her at least twice then me

[_Phenomenon_]

I think both should get off at the same time. ;)

[scooogy]

There's always reason behind the saying "ladies first"

[JGOG7in]

Oh really how long it take you to figure that one out

[littletimmy5inch]

After i cum im done and I want to lick her clean

[msc545]

The women, since after the man gets off it's pretty much all over.

[Plitty-Tank]

The woman should get off first.

[manmeat]

woman woman woman always as she can again and again