Why am I so Attracted to Older Women?

Like from the age of 28 to 34, I am absolutely crazy for older women. Not just physically, but also emotionally as well as personality wise. Granted, I still find women my own age attractive, but not nearly as much as women who are a bit older than me. For example, look at the images below:
Why am I so Attracted to Older Women?
Why am I so Attracted to Older Women?
The first woman is 28 while the second woman is even older at 35, and both are among the most beautiful women I have ever laid my eyes on. I have been aroused by women before, but when I am aroused by an older woman like in the images below, it is stronger. I feel like I want to absolutely devour them in bed, and worship every square inch of their bodies, as if they were a piece of fine art.

I am never this aroused by women my own age.

As stated earlier, the attraction is not only physical but also emotionally and personality wise as well. Older women to me are more confident, and I find that to be extremely sexy. Furthermore they seem more nurturing and less judgmental, traits which I am extremely attracted to. Perhaps most of all, they remind me of my mother who is in her 30s, my mother whom I am extremely close to and love with all of my heart. Make no mistake, I am *not* attracted to her, although she is an extremely attractive woman, but women who are older like her bring me comfort, and I think this plays a role in why I like older women so much.

Is this normal? Is it normal to be attracted to older women or am I just weird? Furthermore, realistically, can such a relationship work out in the real world? Older women, do you like it when guys like me are so irrationally attracted to you?
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  • So you like a cavernous tunnel do you?

  • You're not the only one. We're many like this.

  • You're fine dude. It's just you being you.

    When I was younger (18-25), gals of that age range were checking me out. Now that I'm older, gals that are 21-28 are checkin me out (or at least I've been told by my friends). It's the oddest thing (for me).

  • Calm down bruh lol, you triggered a lot of foot fetish pervs right now with your last pic.

    Why would anyone die for used woman while there are young and fresh chicks around huh? 😎

    • Lmao I was waiting for the foot fetish comment 🤣

  • So you gave up on women realise that you're too horny to do so then send 5.1 above average dick pics to grannies?

    • I think he believes he has a better chance with older woman based on his selling stick for woman. This is the type of guy who main selling point for woman to be with him is he can PROVIDE for them and as we all know women in this age range and older tend to prefer provider qualities a lot more. So logically it would make sense for him to want to go for an age group who now values him a lot.

    • It's ok women in their 30s have NO interest in a teenaged baby either. We want REAL men.

    • **My previous reply was intended for anonymous below.

  • im a 18 year old female who is attracted to older women

  • You're not alone.

  • Maybe some have an aura

  • Because older women have their shit together. Attraction is more than just physical. And most guys are stttracted to older women. My mom gets a lot of young dudes lol

  • They remind them of your mum

  • It's not irrational. It's normal. In a survey of 10,000 men around the world of all ages they were asked at what age was a woman most beautiful and the consensus was 33.

  • Not this guy again *sigh*

  • What is your relationship with your mother?

    • My thoughts too

    • Extremely good to the extent I wrote an entire MyTake about her. She is like my savior.

    • Oh that explains it.

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  • that'll change once you get in your 30s. you'll start liking younger chicks

  • Instinctively you are aware that you have no chance with women in their prime age (teens -early 20's) and so have opted to go for older woman who standards are lower and more desperate as a coping mechanism for not getting women in their prime age.

    It's not different from a guy instinctively finding hot women not as attractive as average girls because he knows deep down he can't attract hot girl or say a guy losing attraction for a girl who rejected him.

    • this x1000!

    • You do understand that a woman in her prime is 40 right? Most people live to be 80 plus. The prime of your life is in the middle, not at the beginning when your female body doesn't even know how to climax yet🙄

    • @MelG23 No despite media saying otherwise a woman's prime is not in her 40's. Logically it makes no sense. Why would a woman's prime correlate with the time period when she is barely fertile and has little to no eggs left. A woman by age 30 has lost 90% of the eggs she was born with.

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  • and when you're older you'll want a younger woman to take under your wing... sounds like every guy

  • Because you're projecting that they don't have the common flaws in women around you.

    Some do, some don't.