Why are black women so racist to white girls?

Question

Ok I've never had BBC but that's mostly because of a lack of black people where I like. So when one turns up at my local pub I thought why not give it ago. I stared flirting with him making it clear what I wanted then suddenly this black girl came from nowhere and started calling me white trash and string of racial profanities I can't write here. I wasn't doing any harm, I just wanted sex so why the racial hatred thrown at me?

Majesty101 · Accepted Answer

There could be three reasons to this. But before I can explain them, let me say this. The form of your question is a little out of pocket. Instead of saying 'why are black women so racist to white girls' is a little extreme, don't you think? You could have said why did this girl get so upset with me, instead of claiming that she was being racist toward you because you are white. There are plenty of women out there who curse each other out at bars, but just because she's black doesn't mean that she is racist toward you, let alone the entire generality of all white girls🙄
It would be different if this happened on multiple occasions but putting that kind of label on this one situation is completely dramatic. But at the same time, she did call your racial profanities, but that could have also been to try and hurt your feelings.

Now, back to the reasoning. For one, that could have been her boyfriend, husband, or partner. If you seen another woman trying to talk to your boyfriend/husband from a sexual point, would you be happy with that either?

Second, let me explain the stigma behind this whole 'white girl, black girl' situation. For years it has been known for white girls to like on black men and for some black men to like on white girls. So when you see a white girl, or really any girl other than a black one, trying to talk to a black guy, it can get under one's skin, as the gap between black men and black women is constantly being wedged by these situations.

As a side note for the ignorant ones in the guy's section, black women are far from jealous of white women. Not trying to start a race issue, but white girls are not deemed in our headspace as 'jealousy material' as you really don't have anything that we want. The only thing we really care about is the annoying stigma of the 'black guy/white girl' situation. But hey, I'm not even hating. If you wanted to talk to that black guy, by all means, do what you want, that's your desire, but clearly that woman was upset about something.
The third explanation could be that you were simply flirting with him. Because I do't know the full details of the situation, she might have even heard what you were saying. It's a pretty touchy situation, but I wouldn't take it too harshly, as I really don't know the true reason.

But to make myself completely clear, 'jealousy', 'insecurity', and 'envy' are not how black girls feel toward white women. Having the curves, and the curls, and the natural glowing essence is a gift that no one else has. Also, we do not solely depend on black men at all, considering the strength that we have on our own. There are plenty of other race man that admire us, so trust me, one man is not going to 'hurt' us.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So because you had one experience with a black girl, all black women are racist? Haha get real. My Nonna is one of the most racist woman I know and she indoctrinated my aunts and uncles to be the same way. My mom was the only one that thought for herself and they all but disowned her because she fell in love with my Puerto Rican/Black father. Growing up with a family that treated me like shit because of what I was born as still doesn't make me stereotype all white people.  Get over yourself girl.

BeenThereLovedIt · Accepted Answer

Because just like *some* white people, *some* black people are also racist and the idea that one of them would entertain a white girl makes him a "race traitor" and you are just automatically the enemy.

This is why the race problems are simple. There's racism on both sides.

hbg84 · Accepted Answer

Short answer is you was invading her territory i. e. her boyfriend most likely. Therefore you deserved to be called out for your actions. Maybe she just hates particular white girls that hit on her boyfriend

Lliam · Answer

Jealously. Low self esteem.

Red_Arrow · Answer

That was her husband.

Shampan · Answer

She was probably offended at the way you approached him only for sex over a common Black stereotype. Not all Black women are like that by the way

LanaJane · Answer

If you ask around you'll hear that men (of all races) find white girls way more attractive than black girls. That's why they are so bitter. Don't think that you did something wrong :)

normalice · Answer

It's slang. She was offering a threesome.

Just_a_human · Answer

Maybe they don't want other races to steal the black men since the selection is so small

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

that was his likely his girlfriend lol I've come across many who say "we can't be racist" but they are.. their guilty conscionce trys to deny it.

Paige90 · Answer

More proof that most blacks are the real racists.

Bellaco · Answer

Because they are insecure. Not all black girls are jealous of white girls by the way

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

Were they together?

pigoat · Answer

Her man probably  And when people get mad they will say anything to hurt your feelings or get you mad enough to fight

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

because she whas a hypocrite nigga bitch. Evry girl and man is alow to have sex whit each partener they want doesn't mather if they are same color or not.

jgirl99 · Answer

Racist white girl question

RyanK9 · Answer

Well, she defended her territory with racist shit. Our society came so far that they allow a racist self hate towards whites.  She was probably indoctrinated.

scott04sa22 · Answer

She probably got racial because she was jealous. She probably thought you are more cuter than her and she probably had her eyes on him before you did. That's my opinion