Guys, why are guys uncomfortable about MMF threesomes?

I really want to have a threesome with 2 guys but guys seem really uncomfortable about having a threesome with another guy there. Why is it such an issue?
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  • The issue is the second "M" of a MMF! For many dudes, even if they have no problem seeing naked men, like in a shower room or skinny dipping or whatever, that's very different than having sex, and here why. Just like it's a boner-killer to think about, let's say, your grandmother during sex, it's often the same idea when seeing aanother naked dude's junk during sex!

    Plus, even without ever being a guy in a MMF, reguardless of how it will actuall work out, that's the PRECIEVED outcome. Or that there will be some type of gay-interactions involved between the guys. So guys see nothing to really gain, and the ladies are left hunting! But change it to FFM, and he thinks, double the lovin' for him, in addition to seeing lesbians play, and no penis to be seen for miles!

  • straight guys don't want to be naked around other men in a sexual way, don't like sharing, and are worried the other guy might check them out (or simply outperform them).

    In a guy's mind, a threesome with two girls and a guy is 3 people all having sex together. It's kinky, fun, everyone gets off, no dick but his involved.

    And a threesome with two guys and a girl are just 2 people having sex with 1 other person, trying to ignore the presence of the other guy. it's kinky, everyone can get off... but it is less fun, i think.

    • I mean, unless a girl is bi, a threesome with two girls and a guy is also 2 people fucking 1 person. like, it's not different for straight girls.

    • I said "in a guy's mind..." before i explained the threesome. And in a guys mind, he hopes all girls are bi lol. besides, if i wouldn't agree to a threesome with another guy because i didn't want sex with another guy, i would assume that that would be the same reason a girl didn't want a threesome with another girl: because she didn't want sex with a girl. so we assume if she was agree to a FFM threesome, that she has some interest in contact with the girl.

    • @snoopdogg usually girls are much more gay then guys, and lesbians are much more socially acceptable then gays, while sluts are less socially acceptable then womanizers.

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  • Dick comparison, It's also the concerns over it being persevered as gay.. touching another man man or even feeling his penis.
    These things can be overcome by concentrating on the woman , her pleasure and giving her the fantasy she desires.

  • Maybe because those guys aren't into other guys being there. It sounds pretty hot though. You should aim for guys who are bi they'd be more into it.

  • It's all about jealousy. Guys ask themselves, "Is he better than I am". Casual sex like this becomes a competition. Every guy would do well to steer clear of this. Don't forget, as well, the reputation that will follow YOU around for life.

  • When I was much younger (MUCH, MUCH) I did have a couple of those. One was the spit roast and the other was simply one at a time. No M-M contact so no problems. Have to say though, that it did not take much time after that to be content with one at a time. Better communication and sex.

  • accidentally crossing swords lol

  • There was a guy here who asked a question about him doing anal masturbation and some girl said it was gay. She is not alone to think like that. Many women think like that. No other men were involved, he was alone, and it was deemed gay. Now imagine a man having sex with another naked man in the vicinity.

  • Men are naturally much less likely to "share" and most men are much less into gayish things.

  • Straight guys don't like touching other guys, especially naked ones.

  • Just not interested in having another guy nekid when I'm trying to do my girl. I'd be very uncomfortable and I don't think I could even get it up.

  • I don't like to see other men naked.

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