Why are men so afraid of being dominated in the bedroom?

I’m mostly submissive, but I the idea of dominating from time to time because it sounds really sexy to me. When I say “dominate” I don’t mean whipping, spanking, or causing any pain to him.

Sadly, adult films depict dominant women on the more extreme side when really most of us dominant women are more gentle than that.

When I think of dominating a man, in the bedroom, I think of me taking control or telling him what to do.

I imagine a scenario where I tie him to a chair and have my way with him. I sit on his lap, grind on his dick, make out with him, kiss up on his neck, slowly strip off his clothes, rub my tits in his face, tell him to suck my tits, make him motorboat my tits, etc. Then I climb off and slowly make my way down until I’m on my knees. Then I unzip his pants and suck him off until he’s nice and hard for me. Then I untie him, push him onto the bed, and I ride him cowgirl til I cum all over his dick.

Another scenario is similar to the one above but with role playing. In this dominating role play I am the teacher and he is my student. He has to sit in a chair and wait for my instructions. I come out in a sexy teacher outfit and glasses. I instruct him that he is to take an exam. His exam is that I am allowed to do anything I want to him (within his agreed limits), but he is not allowed to touch me the entire time. If he does touch me then he fails the exam and I get to ride his face til I cum.

So men, why’re you not comfortable with being dominated in the bedroom? Would you be okay with doing any of the dominating scenarios I listed above?
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  • I'm not afraid of it.

  • As a switch that lean more to dom I would say I would love that. Sure most of the time I want to be the one on the dominating role, but to switch occasionally is a lot of fun.
    Of course to let go of control is not something I would do with someone I don't fully trust.

    • This is how I feel expect opposite. A switch that leans more towards sub. It’s fun having the best of both worlds in my opinion. And trust is definitely important when it comes to the bedroom.

  • A lot of guys would be comfortable with it luv, don't worry.

  • Thats pussys, thats why 😅

  • I would love it

  • I want be a teacher lol but I wish girl squeeze my balls and punch it hard then kiss me 😊☺️

  • That sounds wonderful to me. I wouldn’t have a problem with that. Sounds fun 🤩

    • It sure is 😎

    • I love it when women do whatever they want to me and then ride my hard cock until they cum multiple times on it. So hot

    • Sounds like you can last a long time

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  • Bring it on Hottie

    • 😂😂😂

    • That’s what I’m talking bout

  • I would love it.

  • Honestly that sounds amazing.

  • I like it

    So I can’t say why some guys don’t

  • who's afraid

  • I'm comfortable with being dominated sometimes and would be willing to do both scenarios you describe. At some point I might fail the exam on purpose since the punishment sounds pretty hot to me.

    • Lool nice, you sound fun

  • Male EGO.

  • Only way I've ever ben dominated before was.

    A girl hand cuffed me to a chair, And fucked her ex boyfriend, right infront of me with no condom
    She made me watch. And was bent over in my face moaning.

    she made me clean it up after he left, and she untied me.

  • I’d probably give it a try. I’m a dom through and through but I love a good tease leading up to the orgasm

  • I'd be comfortable doing both and would enjoy them. I'd only want one change which is the one when tied to the chair I wouldn't want to get oral. I'd prefer the woman tk either while I'm tied to the chair stand so that I ahve to go down on her. Or me kneeling while she's stood or something like thar.

    I don't like the idea of recieving oral but get really tuned on at the idea of giving.

    And the 2nd one does sound fun tho I think id fail that exam a lot. As I like the sound of the "punishment" having the woman sit on Mt face till she gets odd.

    • Facesitting is dominant that’s why I chose it lol. And your first scenario also sounds nice.

    • I have no issue with a woman being dominant within reason like just taking charge and no more. I also find the thought of face sitting hot as I would be able to loom up at her as I pleasure her. Overall I'm don't buy into the roles of sub and Dom I think it's nice to switch it up. I have something's I'm against most aren't and a key one is recieving oral. Or any positions from the back. Like doggy.

  • I'd love it. I think a lot of guys would. Have some turned you down?