Why are men so disrespectful to nice women?
Afterwards, he said we can do something but changed his mind and went home an hour away. Then he texted me asking what I wanted. He admitted he just wanted a hook up, and i said i dont want a one night stand. He said he'd be willing to 'have sex on many occasions" and when i mentioned cuddling he said "no intimacy" that leads to feelings. If I wanted intimacy i'd have a girlfriend and 'ive never had a problem before." I'm so confused- why is he so arrogant and rude as if he can get any woman he wants- also acting demanding as if "i just want sex only nothing else." He was basically saying "i just want to use you for free quick "sex" with no cuddling or intimacy and acted like that's ok. Not "ok if you're even willing to have sex with me that way, i'll do whatever you want." What a crazy jerk? How can a guy treat a female so badly? Also can't these idiots read what kind of person you are- im like a deep thoughtful genuine person- regardless to treat any human that way is ridiculous. His 'ex' who was crazy did some horrible things to him- and he stayed with her and took all her crap.
I told him to get a hooker if he just wants a quick meaningless bang and he took that as an insult and kept saying "i don't pay." I told him im a genuine person and not interested in just random bangs. Most dates I go on- the guys are just such jerks to me in major ways- when im a really nice kind person and also pretty.
What are guys like this thinking? I mean to me he was treating me lower than a prostitute... but most guys do. Do they do that to women who are hot?
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