Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I don't get it- so I get men maybe just want sex- but all the men I meet online say and do things to be mean or degrade me. I'm a really pretty female, hot, sexy educated and a really cool nice person. These guys I meet treat me horribly. I just had a date with a guy who barely talked to me- tons of silent/awkward moments, he ignored me half the time, and I had to be the one doing all the talking. He was turned on by me too.
Afterwards, he said we can do something but changed his mind and went home an hour away. Then he texted me asking what I wanted. He admitted he just wanted a hook up, and i said i dont want a one night stand. He said he'd be willing to 'have sex on many occasions" and when i mentioned cuddling he said "no intimacy" that leads to feelings. If I wanted intimacy i'd have a girlfriend and 'ive never had a problem before." I'm so confused- why is he so arrogant and rude as if he can get any woman he wants- also acting demanding as if "i just want sex only nothing else." He was basically saying "i just want to use you for free quick "sex" with no cuddling or intimacy and acted like that's ok. Not "ok if you're even willing to have sex with me that way, i'll do whatever you want." What a crazy jerk? How can a guy treat a female so badly? Also can't these idiots read what kind of person you are- im like a deep thoughtful genuine person- regardless to treat any human that way is ridiculous. His 'ex' who was crazy did some horrible things to him- and he stayed with her and took all her crap.
I told him to get a hooker if he just wants a quick meaningless bang and he took that as an insult and kept saying "i don't pay." I told him im a genuine person and not interested in just random bangs. Most dates I go on- the guys are just such jerks to me in major ways- when im a really nice kind person and also pretty.
What are guys like this thinking? I mean to me he was treating me lower than a prostitute... but most guys do. Do they do that to women who are hot?
Why are men so disrespectful to nice women?
Anonymous
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oh yeah all of these men had crazy or bad ex's- this last guy had an ex who had him thrown in jail- and they seem to love these crazy evil women- he even said he knew she was crazy when he met her- but they degrade the nice good women and treat them horribly. They date and ask the crazy women to marry them too
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What Girls & Guys Said
0 23Becayse they knew that if they show disrespect to them than women find them masculine
you think so? that guys do it on purpose thinking that a girl will like them in some way? So many guys do this to me- it's weird and frustrating- b/c im like so nice and im hot too- maybe they do it esp to hot women thinking that those women want bad boys? thanks
No for that thing you have to make them feel your need... like first you make them your addiction if you are hot...
Yes your opinion is also good..
You know personally i never do it but when ever i do it I find its working babyyy
oh really- make them your addiction- lol... even though they're so turned on by me and im so 'hot' there's no way I could ever do that- b/c they treat me so badly- they take away all my power and just want to degrade and put me down... the minute they touch my breast- they're gone and never talk to me again. They just seem to want to use women? I think the women who have the ability to do that to men it's in their personality or something. if I tried it i'd get nowhere- these weird men just don't care. They also just want to date or marry the really crazy bipolar women- like this guy his last girlfriend was crazy, had him thrown in jail and he even said he knew she was crazy... but then they just put down the nice ones
All my power means? Of course some guy are there only for their physical need... Then for making any relation you should be aware... How do you know that you are too hot?
im really hot- i used to model too... but yeah i'm a really hot female, hence the reason so many guys want to bring me down- b/c they want to take away all my power and make me powerless. Because theyre so turned on by me... its sad too because im a nice down to earth person... Most of these guys seem to be narcissists jerks or have issues
i accept this that because of your hotness everybody want to taste you, but coming down doesn't mean that they are using your attitude... ita all depend on attitude Miss Many time people also do this to me, buy my intention is very clear for any act... so be with your intentiom make them bullshit feel down...
If any gu give you the same respect than you would go with them... You want the respect from your opposite person
oh ok- what do you mean? I respect everyone- I grew up in an era where people respected each other... I mean im nice to everyone I meet esp my dates- are u saying I should disrespect them.. they do want to 'taste you" i guess? but that's all they want- just a taste and then they're gone..
yup... if they really like you or be with yoi then they will surely show respect to you
well then why is it that I show respect to them, just for being on a date with me--i dont get their thinking really... a random woman doesn't deserve respect? they seem to respect other women theyre on dates with
Respect should be shown by the person whom you are going to date with Miss...
Your words says that that you are really depressed by those act of guy... I am very sorry on behalf of those guy...
thanks tho it's not your place to apologize for their actions- im just confused as to why these men show respect to women who are crazy/evil/mean sick yet disrespect to kind women- it makes no sense, but i guess sick people behave in irrational ways- thanks
Agreed... I hope i help you somewhere...
Heyyy Can I ask you something in personally
yes u did for sure- thanks ;)
Thank you so much miss for this approval... But Can you please tell me how to message you personally... because I am new to this app... or on the other app like watsapp
I am waiting...
Can i see your hotness... or imagine your hotness..
Do u give a chance to a guy like me
I've given every guy I've met a chance- even really creepy guys who other people were staring at in shock. They've all disrespected or been jerks on a first date
Can you give me a chance a guy from online world.
Miss Model...
I dont know why they do so with hot girl like you... they are fool.. they dont know the use of hotness
I agree they're crazy. I can't seem to find one guy who wants a hot girl oh except my brother in law and other creepy family members. That sucks. So are u Indian maybe u sound like it