Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Are you afraid of her comparing your d*ck size to her ex? Or are you afraid of not been able to satisfy her?
I personally don't judge a guy if he's small down there as compared to my ex's. And if he's unable to satisfy me we can always use a dildo, I'm fine with that. And I'm sure most of girls are.
So, why are guys still afraid to date woman with strong sexual past?
Why are so many guys intimidated by girls strong sexual past?
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2 46I'm not. Depends on the guy. Probably a confidence issue.
"Intimidated" is the wrong word. I am not "intimidated" by a high-mileage used car that has a "new" sticker price, I simply see its value to be far less than the asking price.
It makes her easy, and not so special.
Easy? Special? Where did that come from?
Women that sleep around a lot are not special, many men have gotten to fuck her. Why should I invest in that?
Who said she's special for having lots of sex? I never. And who's asking you to invest?
You asked a question, it's not intimidation. It's more along the lines of disgust. If it makes you feel better to believe it's intimidation, go ahead and believe that. It's like saying women are intimidated by short men. They're just not attracted to them. Same logic applies here.
What's so disgusting about having sex? And I've slept with short man too, I understand the point you are trying to make but for me, I don't really care for height. If you're not attracted to women who enjoy sex with lots of man than I'm not referring to you in question, I am talking about other man who literally are intimidated and feel insecure whether they'd be able to satisfy her.
Well if the man doesn't have a lot of sex, he probably wants another woman that doesn't either because they have more in common. Women shame men all the time for not being perfect in the bedroom. I'm not surprised they feel that way.
LOL.. I’m not... Ever! No girl intimates me!! Period... I’ve been married and divorced , nothing any girl could say or do can make me feel that their better than me...
They’re more afraid if my attitude...
I once went out with a chick that was an attorney, she thought that all guy’s were intimidated by her being a fucking lawyer. As an MD , we despise them. They’re our enemies!
I told her what I think of them in a nice way. She said, you’re the first guy that wasn’t impressed!! Anyway she was very pretty and we just couldn’t get along. Two Alpha’s I guess.
maybe it would seem difficult to give her the same pleasure if she were used to a bigger dick. giving her the same pleasure maybe difficult. of course being compared to others wouldn't be the best either
Not intimidated, disgusted.
All a girl has to do to have sex is saying ''yes'' to a guys advances, this means that she's easy, and were just dating a consolation prize.
Plus, girls with higher body counts, have less empathy and love their current boyfriends less than virgins/girls with low body counts.
Women love accusing men of being intimidated and afraid, trying to go after their manhood when they decline you calling the man "gay" or "somethings wrong" with him.
Here is the brutally honest truth.
Women who have a "Strong Sexual Past" are nasty/untrustworthy to men, that's just nature. Women are the ones who love a man's strong sexual pasts. He, however, is disgusted and I bet you saw it in his face.
The anger you had has translated into your question accusing him of being afraid; of you talking about his and other men's dick sizes to your friends (only women do that shit by the way) and failing to satisfy you. Most women talk about men behind their backs so don't be surprised if the number of men not trusting you rises within the next decade or two. So to TLDR Men aren't afraid, they're disgusted.
Oh dont they just naturally compare all the guys they fucked? I mean I compare my exes all the time. can't help it. Just do do the best for eachother as we can from what we learn. But yeah smell, yo tast and sounds they make, how they talk all these things stick for us. I think its why women might rather fuck as many as possible to bury the painful one in their mind. But biggest differenc for me is the different hygenic details they each keep up with. Just dumb shit.
It is intimidating. She have lot of lovers ti go back to. Lot of temptations for her.
Admittedly I've run into this problem a couple times in my past. Two different bisexual women 3 years apart. And when I was younger I thought it was kind of cool to hear about some of the adventurous things they did like one girl had done a foursome before or dated someone with a 10 incher crazy stuff... and the competitive side of me came out and psychologically it messed with my performance and affected my ability to connect emotionally now in my current relationship I don't try to compete with the past. I just know that the girl I'm crazy about with me in this moment and that's the most important thing. I'm a fitness freak that doesn't smoke but I've learned to blow smoke at the past.
I don't know. It never was a problem I had
You sound cool
I think it is partly the comparison thing. I remember at one point my partner's pillow talk about size resulted in killing the mood because she randomly came out with "well actually my ex was bigger because he had black genes".
I think it also relates more to their involvement in your relationship. My partner has kids with two different exes. One who I respect and is quite laid back, only messages to arrange meetups and that's about it. And the other who calls most days and seems like he just wants an excuse to talk to her. He literally called the other day purely to comment on the weather.
Comparatively I feel quite bad because I've never had a proper ex in that sense, and the only person I've been intimate with before is my partner's twin sister (long story). But even then I attempt to steer clear of mentioning that. Christmas was quite awkward though as myself, my partner and the twin got drunk and played truth or dare. And my partner drunkenly implied that I get an erection every time her twin is mentioned 🤦♂️
It's pretty uncomfortable to think about your woman having sex with other men, especially a lot of them but unfortunately that's the way thinks work. You want to be the best that she's had and men sometimes compare themselves to the guys of the past because this is what we believe she is doing in her head. We want to destroy the competition.
That’s probably it. I think that the older a guy gets and the more exp he gets, he realizes what you are saying.
Because we have male ego
A "strong" sexual past lmao, nice try at reframing it as a positive.
“Strong sexual past” = being a human fuck puppet or a skank.
It’s not about intimidation... it’s just fucking disgusting and whores know it which is why they down play it with shit like calling it “strong sexual past”... you’re a human cum sponge... let’s not pretend otherwise and throw out male shaming tactics to act like that’s the reason.
Get this ‘intimidated’ idea out of your head. It’s just not attractive, it repulses us.
‘Why r men so intimidated by my weight? Why are they so intimidated by my child and baby daddy? Why are all my bad life decisions so intimidating?’ Yeah wrong word
No I like when she does that
I enjoy hearing about all the big dick she said
But is that for casual stuff, or would you get serious with a woman who had such a past?
@Truthatanycost yeah I would get serious with her