Why can’t girls understand that men can have preferences when it comes to your sexual past?

Enough with the downvotes. Enough with the endless “it’s in the past it shouldn’t matter”.

Its not up to you what matters or not. If a dude doesn’t wanna go near a slut or slut shame then that’s that. You made bad decisions, that is your fault. NO ONE HAS TO ACCEPT YOU BECAUSE OF IT.

Own up to it and find a dude who has been around just like you.

Some people find it disgusting and that’s what it truly is. Stop trying to change that mindset. It’s not “freedom” it’s just plain gross.

Make better choices in life and stop trying to justify your hoe behaviours by it was a “phase” or some sh*t like that.
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  • I agree. I want to be with a more laid back and sensually open man than a rigid one and would prefer to know right away we aren’t a good match.

    What I don’t agree with is saying nobody whose ever had casual sex can be a good partner or parent. Or hypocrisy. Your key/lock analogy is dumb. Humans are wired to find various partners a good fit.

  • I never thought about it. I don't expect guys I go out with to be pure. haha

  • A guy has a right to his own criteria for a woman, just as a woman has for a man. Selection criteria doesn't have to be fair, it just has to be what the person is looking for.