Why did he ask me do I want the condom on or off before we had sex?

[WinCx3d]

[Finchie40]

Cuz condoms suck for the most part , it takes away from the guys pleasure , but it’s a risk we take if we fuck a girl without a condom , chances of getting her pregnant increase and chances of STD’s increase , so he asked you cuz he wanted your approval and wants you to feel comfortable , me personally prefers not using a condom , but I will if I am having sex with a girl I barely know and don’t know to much about and her history , So it’s better safe than sorry , if her and I end up together for the long haul and I really get
To know her and feel we are going to stay together then the condoms aren’t even a thing anymore , so in a sense it is stupid not to wear a condom with someone new cuz of the higher risk you are both taking

[Mr_Potatoman]

I disagree with a statement that condoms take away pleasure. If that's the case you're doing something wrong. It's true that it's not the same feeling but it is still very very pleasurable.

[Finchie40]

I am just not a big fan of them but I do use them and I have come across some condoms that aren’t that bad but there are some that I don’t care for too much , I just prefer no condom at all , and I only do that with a girl that it’s in it for the long haul

[Citizenkirk]

There is not a lot of detail specific context tn your question to go on, and I really don't want to risk giving you a wrong answer when the chances of me coming up with the right answer are longer than the odds of me winning the progressive State jackpot. Anything you can tell us to shed some light on the general mood of the circumstances that led to asking you this question.

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[CrazyGirl2]

Well I’m sure he asked because it’s the right thing to do? Would. You prefer a guy who just doesn’t give a shit, and goes in w/o asking? Even if you are on the pill, we both know if you forget a day, you need to use condoms for at least one full cycle. So the fact that he asked you, I think is admirable.

[WinCx3d]

I assumed he would wear the condom since it was our first time

[CrazyGirl2]

Ok well not all women do! Given that, I’m sure, he can’t read minds… He asked! (Thats a good thing)

[kqueen]

probably because he wanted to go condomless but was leaving it up to you out of politeness

[loves2learn]

Because ideally he wants it off but he wants sex either way.

[menina]

Well some people enjoy having sex without condoms. Or he probably doesn't want to have kids and doesn't know if you're on birth control.

[Lliam]

He was being polite and probably hoping that you would say no.
People who are interested in truly gratifying sex and know the difference don't wear condoms. A sexually active women who enjoys sex should be on some form of birth control. She wants to feel skin sliding against skin and be filled with warm cum. She revels in the juiciness of sex. And guys want to feel her juices, too, which they can't do while wearing a rubber.
I'll also say that pulling out is lame.

[WinCx3d]

Well it was our first time having sex i was hoping he’s already know to wear a condom

[Bobsyoruncle]

Could it be that he’s showing concern for your well being and your wishes?

Must be *something* like that since every fiber of his being is almost certain to me pushing him to climb on and ride you bareback into the sunset.

[spartan55]

You are 25 and asking this? Really?

[nice-girl]

Maybe to leave to you the responsability if something happened (like getting pregnant) and the said "you said so"

[Diodoro]

He wants to go without condom but gauging your response first

[WinCx3d]

You think so?

[Diodoro]

No guy wants to use a condom. Many do it out of fear or the girl insists

[NathanDavis]

I am sure you made the right choice

[zaharuh]

Because he was curious if you wanted to use a condom or not

[Joeshamo]

Prefect answer! I was going to say maybe he wasn't sure if she was on birth control. Lol

[zaharuh]

That's a fair answer too lol

[Joeshamo]

@zaharuh Yes, but yours is more concise. She might've said "he already knows i take birth control" and then would've taken forever to figure out why.

[zaharuh]

Yeah that makes sense

[Joeshamo]

@deserter Ask the question better. I should’ve said it like him.

[Anon621]

There's different possibilities in my opinion
Most likely: he wanted to go in raw and was double checking and was probably butt hurt if you said condom on
Alternative: he was actually being respectful and wanted to know your preference
Other alternative: he could have maybe not wanted to get you pregnant so he was hoping you'd say condom on

[MotorcycleMan]

I'm not an expert, but it sounds like he wanted to know if you wanted the condom on or off before you had sex.

[20yearsolder]

Well maybe you trust him to pull out and c all over your tummy. Or maybe you prefer getting fucked without him wearing one. He was being a gentleman and asking you if you wanted it or not

[DJB72]

It could be any number of reasons.

Maybe he's wanting to feel you raw
Maybe he's been living under a rock and never heard of the phrase "STI"

Hope you said on

[Razp_Sorbet]

Don't know maybe ask him, it's not very useful off.

[JosyJosy]

To hear your preference

[FunkyMonkee]

Why not? Obviously, he wants to know what to expect from this fuck session. You weren't gonna wait `til he came in you and THEN told him, "I didn't WANT you to cum me!", were you?

[WinCx3d]

I mean this was our first time i expected him to know to hit a condom on

[FunkyMonkee]

I've had sex at least 100 times with 3 different girls and, so far, I've NEVER used a rubber!! Part of the reason it took me so long to fuck sally (my first girlfriend) was because I had no idea if she was gonna make me pull out at the last minute or just let me cum in her! After a good 20-some minutes of fucking her, it finally hit me that, she's never gonna know when I cum in her if I don't say anything to her about being ready to cum so, I could cum in her at any time and she'd never known it until I was already doing it!! That meant, she was fine with me cumming in her so, I let it wail!! It wasn't until about a month later that I discovered that she uses a diaphragm!! Whether she had it in her that night, I don't know!! If she did, she must've put it in several hours before because I was with her non-stop for the previous 5 hours, or so!! Anyway, if she had told me up front that she WANTED me to cum in her, I would've most likely done so about 10:00 sooner!

[VDrago14]

He just wants to know what you would prefer,

[FilmGuy93]

Would you prefer that he didn't ask? He's being a considerate person.

[WinCx3d]

I prefer if he just put the condom on

[FilmGuy93]

If he asked; he would have preferred not to wear one. Sex is about good communication

[Massageman]

Maybe he wants a kid - - - - - -

[es20490446e]

He likes to play lottery.