Why did he pull my hair?

Question

We were making out for the first time, and things got really steamy! He sucked on my lip so hard, that I woke up with a hickey. He also pulled my hair, and slapped my butt. I didn't say anything, because as I said, we got caught up in the heat of the moment, and I honestly liked it. But now when I think about it, I think that maybe it was "too much" for a first time. And it also made me wonder if he isn't violent in real life?

JSmith925 · Accepted Answer

He may be turned on by these things but chances are he learned them in a porn video and though that was how sexy men are supposed to behave in bed. I think it would be difficult to assess how much damage the proliferation of hard-core porn has done in this country (or worldwide).

How they ever managed to peddle this poison under the US 1st amendment is beyond me. Listen, I am not some old prig. I grew up during the social revolution of the 1960’s and 70’s. I experimented, I had fun. I am still very progressive, particularly for my age. But seriously, violence against women, bestiality, gang rape, etc. Do we really need to see this depicted in our daily lives?

Cj_Shway · Accepted Answer

Cuz he's into pulling you hair, I don't think you need to worry about the violent outside the bed room though, cuz I personally am a lover ( very experienced one) not a fighter, but i still play rough ;)