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Why did you have casual sex?

For fun
Vote A
To explore what I like sexually
Vote B
Couldn't help myself - very high sex drive
Vote C
Was too lonely
Vote D
Was curious about it
Vote E
Was forced - peer pressure/Other
Vote F
I haven't done casual sex yet
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I was a virgin and it didn't start off as casual sex. The guy that I had been talking to previously ended up being in a relationship and I hated it (yes, there's a lot more to that than said, but I'm not going to explain).. I started talking to this guy and he definitely was just something to keep my mind off of things. Anyways, he came over and kissed me.. which I was uncomfortable with. He then asked for sex and I said no. He accepted the no at first but then continued to ask.. and kept saying it would all be ok and what not. I gave in to him.

    • So do u regret it?

    • No, I don't regret it. I just wish I wasn't pressured.

  • After I broke up with the guy who I gave my virginity to, an older friend encouraged me to have a few flings and explore what I like sexually. I thought hard about it and decided that if I found a guy who I liked and trusted enough, I could have sex with him casually. And it happened a few months later. It was a fun experience and I don't regret it.

    • So it was like a friend with benefits? :D

  • As a singer, I used to tour a lot. I toured for eight months once. (I don't tour as much since I got married.)

    The road can be very lonely and there is a lot of opportunity. Once or twice, I tried to cope with the loneliness this way. I'm not proud of it, but there it is.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you included the option "to satisfy my need to feel attractive" I would have chosen that one. Ever wonder how one night stands happened? Just one or both individuals trying to satisfy that same exact need. If you break it down into a science it will veer more onto the path that polygamy is a human trait and the idea of marriage was not a biological idea. Back then it was not uncommon to have more than one sexual partner. Marriage is just a religious tradition.

  • i was a male whore as a teen. I liked to fuck, pure and simple

    • Like sex worker, or just with anyone?

    • It's pretty obvious you're more likely a 40-year-old virgin than a "male whore" at any age.

    • Cmon now @BigJake stop worrying about his dick 😂

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Isn't all sex casual until it isn't?

    Just saying...

  • A, B, C AND E:)

    • Well ya love it right?

    • @AndyD96 Very much. I would think that most do:)

    • Not as many as you think

  • Because I had the opportunity in which I was comfortable.

    • Was it with a stranger? :D

    • @Gramer yep

    • But how did you feel comfortable with an unknown person? :/

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  • Guy didn't want a relationship, only sex... so I got used for sex

    • Been there actually scratch that I’m still there

  • Casual sex, mainly boredom. Lacking the mental stimulation that sexting and sex brings

  • Usually urges and the guy is cute - sometimes end up regretting immediately afterwards!

  • It was for fun and I liked sex!

    • For fun and desire

  • The urge is to strong

  • Because I could and wanted to

  • Is it casual sex if you do it more than once with the same person? Like a fuckbuddy?

    • I guess they mean sex with a stranger? :D

    • Pretty much ya

    • Have you ever tried it? :D

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  • Because I like sex, and I'm not always in a relationship.

  • For fun..

  • I have never done casual sex. I have had cuddle buddies, just sleep over and movie and chill. Bored and lonely.

  • One time my dick got hard and thought "well now this is my situation".

  • Mostly because I’m horny and not in a relationship and I guess sometimes because I was lonely I guess.

    • NEED Any help?

    • I actually do 😂😂😂

    • HOW CAN I help? I don't have a problem with casual sex. We all have needs and everyone takes care of them in different ways.

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  • Cause hoe is life.

  • It tends to be a mixture of things. It's a bit of fun, a quick cure for feeling a bit lonely but without the commitment of a relationship and for me at least, once I've had a few drinks my sex drive goes up haha

    • I don't think it's good to associate loneliness with lack of sex.

    • That's not what I meant exactly, I meant more when sometimes you just feel a bit lonely and fancy having someone to spoon while you sleep, casual sex can give you that lol

  • I wouldn't bother. But if it's your thing, then have fun with it! And for dudes, that want to make things more fun, you can always consider getting a vasectomy first. After that, you can't knock anybody up.

    Ladies on the other hand, although you could get your tubes tied first, the side effects from the surgery for permanent birth control might not be worth it, so just stick with regular birth control such as pills, etc.

  • I was hurt and decided I only wanted to have fun with nsa. That way I wouldn't get hurt again.

    • Gud choice. Giving me feel that I am not alone

  • Never have and never will.

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