Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why do guys have to go so hard and fast?
KitKatKo Xper 3
I've had sex with my fair share of partners, but something I've noticed, especially recently, is the number of guys that go like a jackhammer from start to finish... If I try to change the pace, or ask them to slow down/go softer, they'll usually slow down for 30 seconds or so, then immediately pick up the pace again. The same thing goes for going as deep as possible. This is usually only an issue with really BIG guys, but they will repeatedly insist on slinging my legs over their shoulder. This often can be really painful, especially if they follow precedence and don't bother getting me relaxed enough beforehand. So why is this? Why do guys ignore any request to slow down, or to do anything to make things mroe comfortable/fun for their partners? NOTE: I am aware that not every male acts like this; but it does seem to be a majority.
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 19I'm below average in endowment, so I could probably "jackhammer" without causing any pain for the woman. I've never bothered to try having sex, though.
Considering that I'm on an SSRI, if I went slow, I'd probably last an hour or more.
I will probably mainly do slow lovemaking with my fiancée when we get married. She's an older virgin with zero knowledge about sex.