Why do guys say “you’re so hot” during sex?

My boyfriend says it here and there and I know I’m not ugly but I’m not so hot.. why does he say it? I really hope he’s not thinking about someone else so says it
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Superb Opinion

  • No for us men were more visual a lot of men are so don't take it the wrong way and don't assume that maybe he's thinking about someone else because that'll fuck with your head. Until he gives you reason to not trust him otherwise just say thank you I appreciate it. You're obviously in his eyes incredibly fucking hot and obviously during sex and he's looking at your beautiful naked body or the way that you're moaning or the way that you're getting off or whatever just think them for it say thank you babe or whatever you need to say but there's nothing wrong with that

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well I can't speak for him but I can tell ya about me lol, my wife has low self esteem and she sees herself as a fat ugly fuck but let me say something... before she became a liar among a few other things she was beautiful as any other, she was the apple in my eye she was my world... but after cheating I took her back and then she lied about a bunch of shit and was just a nasty rude bitter jealous person and them traits combined made me see her for what she is... a hideous monster.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh ffs shit like this is what will cause him to run for the hills to get away from you fmd get over your insecurities and stop questioning crap like this

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Maybe he says it 'cause he thinks you're hot?

    I mean, he's having sex with you, so he likely doesn't think you look like three week old mayonnaise.

  • I think it’s a compliment, I think it’s that simple

    • It freaks me out

    • Really, why? I thought women liked attention from boyfriends

  • If it makes the sex better for either of you don't worry about it.

  • Maybe he is saying it to you to make you feel more irresistible in his eyes. Or he is trying to get you to say more things like compliments, or dirty talk.

    • So he needs to say it to make me seem good?

    • No. He is just trying to compliment you or get you to compliment him.

  • Another female that can't just accept a compliment...

  • Think of it as a little cheer-leading to boost anticipation.

    • So he doesn’t mean it

  • if he says you're so hot, he finds how you look or what you do really hot. it doesn't matter to him in that moment how you feel about yourself. you don't have to feel as he feels about yourself but don't just invalidate his feelings like that.

  • It's a passion thing and complement.

  • because they are getting some booty and they are in shock and gonna blow a wad.

  • He wants to turn you on and make you feel good.

  • Probably due to the increased body temperature due to the physical activity.

  • To make a girl feel happy about how she looks nude

  • He probably finds you far more attractive than you find yourself

  • who the fuck cares

  • Like dancing, it’s our go-to…

    • So he doesn’t actually mean it?

    • No he means it. We just have a list of go-to phrases for chicks. Like “you look great”. “You didn’t gain weight.” And we honestly mean it. It’s just muscle memory.

  • Because you won’t fuck us if we say you’re such an ugly cold bitch

    • But I don’t expect him to say anything? If anything it puts me off because I’m aware I’m not so hot I just know I’m not ugly

  • Only he knows how sensually and wildly you have sex with him. He has to appreciate your fucking skill and performance.

  • He means by it, that you are turning him on, it's a good thing.

  • When you're making love you want your woman to feel sensual and wanted and you tell her things that would please her and drive her into having an orgasm which all men want through women to do

  • Because "oh my gosh I want to bathe in your piss" can be off putting.

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