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Sexual Health Why do guys want to have sex without a condom?
Anonymous
Okay my boyfriend is in California seeing his extended family for Christmas and over our many conversations on the phone, he wants to have sex without a condom when he gets back. I don't get why guys want to have sex without a condom when there is so much risk? Yes i am on the pill, but I don't feel that is enough protection. He keeps saying he wants to feel me skin to skin, blah blah blah. We have been together over a tear and we are planning our future together, but i don't want an unplanned pregnancy to derail those plans. I have asked him why is it so important to him to go without a condom and he just says he wants to experience the first time without a condom with me. I have never had sex without a condom and I am scared to try it. So guys does it really feel that much better without a condom? I am scared if we do it once without a condom he'll want to do it all the time without a condom. I have friends from college and high school who just used the pill and many have kids now, so that's why I scared to just use the pill as protection. Does sex feel completely different without a condom for guys? What about for girls do we feel a difference?
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 28Because he's sex-addicted and wants to have sex without a condom.
It feels better more sensation and personally I can feel the wetness of the pussy which is a real turn on.
Because skin to skin penetration is awesome
Unless you are just having fun with him and you guys are not serious, or you don't have that level of trust for him, else if you do love him, are seriously Dow with the relationship and trust him, he deserves to have that clarification of having you raw down there as it will increase your intimacy and love for one another.
He loves you and what's to take it further than the current status of the relationship, else y'all got issues
Girls insisting to use condom even if they're in a relationship often look like sluts. Looks like they want to have sex with other guys without any concern. Maybe its not your case but I'd be suspicious
why do you think?
I used to used Durex. When going without condom, it felt much more intimate. now I had more feelings for that girl
For the same reason a woman prefers it - it feels WAY better. If you're in a committed relationship and on the pill (and take it accordingly) you don't really need a condom in my opinion. Odds are if you try it once neither of you will want to go back to using a condom.
Yeah I figured that, I would like to finish school first, before we try it. Better to be safe than sorry.
The pill is around 99% effective, so if you guys have sex at an average rate for a year there's only a 1/100 chance you'll get pregnant at any point. So it's not exactly high-risk to not use a condom as well.
I know but I know one too many girls who were on the pill and didn't use condoms and got pregnant. It's not a risk i want to take.
Condoms alter the feeling a lot. There are some guys that would rather not have sex at all over using a condom. I think this is because they aren't very sensitive to start with, and can't feel anything with a condom. So it can depend on the guys personal sensitivity level.
You don't have to do anything you want to do, but compromise is an important part of any relationship. Maybe you could meet in the middle and offer him oral, or anal, without a condom. That way he can experience more feeling, and you don't have to worry about getting pregnant.
You might also check on some new birth control methods for yourself. I remember someone telling me there is some newer form of birth control, that was both safer, and more effective than the pill. It might be worth looking into.