Why do lots of men want a FFM threesome?

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How can I ask my boyfriend for one? And anyone that has had one (in a relationship) , how was it?

ThePragmaticRomantic · Accepted Answer

The basic logic is obvious. 1 girl is good. 2 must be better. Sex is good. More sex is better. Etc.
In practice I think FAR fewer guys are up for it than they will say. To quote the classic "now I can dissapoint two girls at the same time". lol.

Personally it never appealed to me. When I have sex I lock my attention so much on my partner I think I would end up neglacting the second lass. Then I dated a girl who was SUPER into the idea. Now the idea of a FFM threesome with the focus being one of the girls is sort of a massive turn on... but not in that relationship anymore so seems unlikely. :D
That said the few friends who say they have had one, have all regretted it (or have enjoyed the experience but it killed the relationship). Mostly it seems due to issues regarding the third party. If it's someone in the friendship group it fosters a lot of awkwardness and jealousy. If its someone else, issues regarding how easy, or difficult the person was to aquire. etc.

As for asking your partner, have a low preasure judgement free conversation. Discuss porn you each like. Talk about fantasies. Ask how he feels about threesomes (in terms of the fantasy, as porn, and as a real thing). That should give you an answer of if he would be up for it without you having to ask directly.

Jayeleo · Accepted Answer

Well if he's super straight then the sight of a dick will turn him off. Then there's the fact no other guy should be having sex with you, so why would he want to watch it happen? Plus what if the other guys dick is bigger? That's the worst, not only are you watching either your girl suck or fuck another dude, but he's got a bigger dick than you. It's supposed to be a threesome, not depressing cuckhold bs.
That's why threesome with girls are betterr! Hurray!
Legit almost every dude dreams about it, just straight up ask him if he wants to

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

its a lame way for them to cheat while getting their partners involved in it so that they don't feel too guilty

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you'll get jealous dont do it. except if you are secretely gay.

nickyBBB · Answer

Because 2 of a thing you like together is always a good thing

Miristheiss · Answer

I don't know. I'm not one of them. I just want my girl and no one else. There will never be anyone else in our bedroom and if she decided she wanted to bring in an additional lover then I'd leave her.

Cuintan · Answer

Asking is easy. 'Don't you think a threesome with Sally would be fun?' Or 'If we ever have a threesome which other girl would you invite?' It opens the topic in a non-threatening way and just one short step from making it happen.
Sorry, no experience to report.

Arabian911 · Answer

Too much porn..

CuriousRandomPerson · Answer

It felt quite strange, because I felt like I was getting more pleasure than I was giving. You can't be focused on both girls at once, because you wouldn't be able to satisfy the two entirely, so they both kind of "take turns" getting pleasure, but it's hard to switch because you're afraid one will get more than the other. I'm more a fan of MFM (never did it in a "romantic" relationship, always in a pure sex no feeling one), but I don't know how do girls feel in a MFM

Ripper_E · Answer

II can't do a threesome. I don't know why but they rub me the wrong way.

Wollu · Answer

Because of 6 orifices instead of 3. Because all variants in sex positions increase by a factor of 3 :)

jonny1982 · Answer

Great idea but bad in reality unless you have a rock steady relationship, can leave one of the two of you feeling inadequate and cause problems down the line, on the other hand if you can’t see your relationship lasting forever you might not have much to lose and it may be the experience of a lifetime, think long and hard before committing x

cristopher96 · Answer

Just tell him be honest he is not gonna think less of you

dardorsama · Answer

Easy... just watch a threesome porn with him and in the middle of it ask him "why not we try that?"

B2785 · Answer

I'd be lying if I said the fantasy of it hasn't crossed my mind, but I don't actually want a threesome or more of any kind. I want someone I can focus all my attention on.

Rascaldees · Answer

Most men don't despite popular opinion.

Good_Behavior · Answer

I don't know. I don't have enough dicks for it.

Kelly6 · Answer

Because it’s 2 girls at once

Nandor · Answer

Are you saying my had is a bad partner?

Rick912 · Answer

Kelly6 has the answer. Guys would like two girls treating him like a sex king.

CT_CD · Answer

6 holes are better than 3

Markfish · Answer

More ancedotal evidence that all women are bisexual

Katerinaua · Answer

If guyloves you he wants only you, if not he want more and moreggirls to exite him

hipeechick · Answer

Most men just can't be honest...
Ever notice how this fantasy or want comes up after a couple have been together for some time.
A time period where the sex has become boring, mundane and maybe routine.
There are a rare very small percentage that will have other reasons but the huge percentage have just the one.
He will bring it up, hint or even slyly maneuver her into a conversation on the subject of adding another girl.
Reason? Someone, something new; all without the risk of cheating which would involve quite a lot of work on his part.

The most laughable thing about this? Almost all men struggle to sexually fulfill one woman and want to add to it; Why not disappoint two?
Usually these same men are horrified, deriding, dismissive and more on the subject of an MFM threesome.
A threesome which is practical, biologically and physically achievable.
Those macho men will be snoring soon after their orgasm

Male Insomnia? No problem, a little sex and you'll soon be snoring.

while their goddess is still going strong

because she is capable of pleasuring more, many more!

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