Why do people judge me because of my fantasies?

I am a Muslim, I have never committed adultery in my life. I've never had sex before. I will wait until I get married. Muslims committing adultery do not concern me. I want a person like myself who has never committed adultery. true i admit i have too many fantasies
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  • Sleep together, like sleep in the same bed naked, cuddling, kissing and when you both wake up nature will take its course.
    I had a problem way back in my teens that I would be so anxious about sex that I couldn't get wet and I was too tight for him to penetrate me so after a lot of fustrated trying one night I just let my ex boyfriend jerk off and cum on my pussy. We went to sleep together for the first time together, cuddled all night naked and when we woke up I was naturally wet and he was naturally hard and we f*cked all morning.
    This works for guys who can't get hard too because of performance anxiety. I did the same with a guy who couldn't get an erection due to performance anxiety, that morning I before he was awake I was in the saddle riding him like a horse lol

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  • Maybe because some people do live out there fantasies and if they have a chance to live out there fantasies they do it. If you are determined not to commit adultery or any fantasy that against your religion you should be judge it just a fantasy unless you live it out it's okay to have fantasies.

  • Just remember, ultimately, you are what you do, not whatever weird thoughts may flash through your mind at the moment.

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  • What kind of fantasies?

    • You look fucking gorgeous 😘

    • Lol wow! Okay thanks! That came out of nowhere lol

    • Darling you're dream of many guys... wow such a gorgeous 😘

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  • More details pls.. why people know ur fantasies at first.. its something a self secret.

  • Everybody has fantasies and people shouldn't judge but they usually do. As long as you're a good person, that's what counts.

  • I never judge anyone because of their fantasies or anything else.

  • Tell me what your fantasies are

  • I apologize but most Muslims are like that. I would never judge a person based on their fantasies but I'm not a Muslim

  • Don't worry i have the same situation as you have and i have too many weird fantasy and I'm also a muslim. We can talk about our fantasies and believe me i never judge you just DM me. We can understand eachother as a good friend.

  • Everyone judges everything. That is literally how humans interact with reality.

  • That’s cool.

  • People who do commit it, doesn't bother you?

    Do mass shootings not bother you too?

    I think it's ok to want someone who hasn't cheated. Why is that such a shameful fantasy to some. Probably because they're guilty and don't want to be shamed for it

  • Depends what you mean

  • Since when does wanting someone like yourself become a fantasy that's just a personal preference?

  • Because you literally seem way more obsessed with dick than the average woman

  • Too many fantasies? Is there such a thing?

  • I have been with a lot of muslim girls and I am sure they are really interesting humans when it comes to sex.

  • I wouldn't judge because of someone's fantasies because I have many of my own.

  • Which kind of fantasy is that?

  • everyone has their own values ​​and beliefs:)

  • Salam. Shia Muslim here.

    "Women impure are for men impure, and men impure for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity: these are not affected by what people say..." Holy Quran, Surah Nur (Light), verse 6.

    It is your right that you want to marry a pure (and virgin) man. He can have fantasies like you do. But the important thing is that he should be pure not because he can't commit adultery. But because he can and chooses not to commit adultery.

    I pray you meet and marry the right person but please until then try not to watch "romantic" movies. That might increase your fantasies. Fantasies are good but excessive fantasies are not OK. Especially thinking that you both will be out of breath in two minutes. Every virgin is.

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