Why do so many men have a fetish for female pedophiles?

They fancy them and defend them because they wanted them as kids and take it to the adulthood.

I think it's very strange and creepy.
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  • Men associate sex with pleasure. Women associate it with victimhood. Yes, as adolescents almost all of us had fantasies about school teachers or other kids' mothers. Maybe that makes us a bit more forgiving of women who go after teen boys (not little boys, though).

    While we're being honest, though, I know plenty of women who are very forgiving of men who go after teenage girls... as long as the guy is attractive... for the same reasons. It's just human nature to project

    • I am projecting? When you just billed women as victims of sex. You don't make any sense and don't even know much about girls

    • You are contradicting yourself, how do women fetishise pedos when they are victims? That makes no sense

    • We all project. It's kind of essential for empathy, but we don't call it projecting, we call it "putting yourself in the other person's shoes". So if the situation was some 15yo boy being used for sex against his will by some ugly old hag, we consider it wrong because we wouldn't like it if it happened to us. But if it's a case of the boy being a willing participant seduced by an attractive woman, well, we've all had those fantasies. And women are no different. But even if it were a case of a sixteen year old girl seducing an older man, you'd still see her as the victim even though she was the one who acted.

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  • What you stated is true. Most, if not all boys had (multiple) fantasies about making out or doing a teacher or a MILF or just an older HOT female. We would live vicariously through them…. especially if the teacher/MILF/other was pretty/hot. 🤷‍♂️

    • @abc3643

    • Does it bother there are people who have the same fantasies about male pedophiles too? You are pathetic and sexist

    • You know nothing about me. You asked a question and I answered it, from my POV. And then you have the nerve to bad mouth me….. classy, not……. I’ll keep my opinion of you and your comment to myself.

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  • Never heard of it.
    What countries is it happening in?

    • Everywhere

    • I guess it just doesn't make the news here.

  • Well it'd depend on what you see as Pedophilia - Because it has to do with both common sense and age of consent in the specific country you live in - Here in Italy it's 14 - and 13 if the person you're doing it with is 16 and younger - Laws aside - Almost all dudes hit puberty and start having sexual thoughts and fantasies and masturbating between the ages of 11 and 13 - I think 11 is still pretty young but I know guys myself included who have fantasized about teachers from when we were 13 - And if the teacher would've tried something I 100% wouldn't have said no (that's an understatement) - I think girls get all sexual later when like 15-16 and some at 14 now - So it also makes sense - Pedophilia towards "young boys" should be 12 and under - Because that's when the average of hitting puberty is - I find it funny though how Americans make it at 18 like what the hell - it ain't even logical for girls...

    • If it's illegal it's pedophilia, simple..

    • So you agree with me?

    • No not really - Because well 120 years ago I could beat up my wife with a broom and nobody could tell me shit - Because it's legal - It still doesn't make it right - Which is why laws change through people using realistic common sense - If you actually read what I wrote I said 12 and under for boys would be Pedophilia and 13 and under would be Pedophilia towards girls... I also said 18 for age of consent is a joke - I also said I fantasized about teachers when I was 13.. so no I do not agree

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  • Are you making things up and living in your own bubble again? Sounds like it.
    First of all define for us what u mesn female pedophiles. Is it 70y old women lurking in 9year old kids? Or 30y women with 15y boys in school? Teacher student thing, cus yea 15 guys dont mind to get laid. Simple as that

    • So you just admitted men love female pedophiles and then got mad at me for pointing it out? Why are you so pathetic?

    • Just admit to it or shut up Stop twisting things

    • Hello, i asked genuine question to define what u mean and gave u two optional answers to different definitions thst i gave, all u had to do is clarify not attack me like some crazy bich

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  • I’ve never met a man who was interested in pedophilic women. They are quite rare.


    Generally men would see it as either creepy or just risky because she would be more interested in men younger than them which makes them feel insecure.


    Men do tend to view female pedophiles more favourably than male ones though because we associate male sexuality with a predatory edge and tend to assume young males have more autonomy than young females so would be able to say no if they didn’t want it. Obviously that’s sexist but most men are somewhat sexist in our culture.

    • Tons of men fancy female pedophiles two admit it here, so?

    • Two on an online and anonymous website isn’t tons, there are thousands of people on here. Most of them are probably just men who view themselves as young and helpless and want women to take the active/predatory role because they are afraid to/were afraid to as teens

    • It still shows there are many

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  • Sounds strange and creepy to me. Maybe because there are not that many female pedophiles compared to male pedophiles.

  • I don't know its a bit creepy

  • News to me. I'm not personally familiar with any men who approve of such a thing.

    • They say its wrong, but they fancy them and don't mind them for real

    • U live in bad neighborhood crime rate must be through the roof there

    • @Honesttguy what's for sure is you love old women going after young boys No need to be embarrassed

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  • Lol i never heard about that😂😂😂

    • It's everywhere

    • Men have their own double standard for this They love female pedophiles

    • Lol this world becomes weirder and weirder each day if it's actually true🤢😂

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  • You’re imagining something strange stuff

    • Look at your gender

  • Whaaat? No, my boyfriend is not like that

    • You don't know

    • Please, me and him talked about hat.

    • Okay then

  • Kind of an ersatz for their mother? Oedipus is lurking around I guess ;0)

    • No I am talking about you and your defence of female predators

    • No, I'm not defending female predators. I know the difference between an evil mind and a genuinely sensual woman.

    • What is it?

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  • It’s a full on double standard I was a kid and messed with a 35 year old woman maybe because I was the one that was hitting on her so I don’t think much of it but if it’s a man and a young girl I have a problem with it but I don’t get turned on by a woman that messes with a young boy and this doesn’t matter much but I was 15 so when I say boy I’m thinking maybe 13 the youngest either way I wouldn’t mess with a woman that messed with teenage underage boys and at the same time I wouldn’t want to go beat her up for it like I would a man

    • You clearly have a bias and like female pedophiles from your experience. You are just confusing yourself because you try to stay moral

    • And there is no need to harm a man who's being approached by a girl. It's mostly her responsibility at this point.

  • Every boy/mans fantasy to have a perverted woman who isn’t afraid to go after what she wants.

    • Do you see how many men deny it on here?

    • Lol, no denying it. Every man wants his womb to be a pervert and go after what she wants.

    • Look at what men say here They even attack me for pointing out they like pedos

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  • I have never fantasized about this and never known anyone that has

    • Look at my discussions here and you'll see. Some men are talking about it here

  • Maybe it's because men who like women who like 13 yr old boys think "she might be crazy enough to like me too!" :-D

    • That's so petty

    • I don't think petty is the right word for it.

    • What is?

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  • older girls are curvier and thick some guys like that physically.

    • Why do they like old women then?

  • I didn't know they did. Maybe it has something to do with fantasising about their female teachers in school.

  • Folly. Simping. Mistaken sentimentality.

  • I mean its the younger men that do not mind the older women. However women should just go for the 18 men.

    • Adult men still have a fetish with them

    • I like younger women myself

  • I didn’t know this was a thing, but there seems to be a fetish for just about everything, so color me surprised.

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