As a dominant sexual sadist, I can tell you it's about dominance and sadism. I love to just manhandle my woman, biting her back and her lips and ears, pinching her nipples really hard, and groping her tits and ass very roughly. I love to throw her over something like the back of the couch and just take whatever I want: her pussy or her ass. We have safe words, of course, so she can scream and cry out no, stop and I don't have to worry. If she gets too into it, I'll ask her for her safe words and if she knows them, I'll make sure she's okay. If so, it's back to whatever I want to do to her. It's about dominating her completely and hurting her so it hurts good.
That help?
It's hard to explain why I like it. I just do, ya know? The feeling of domination, exerting my strength, being in charge, taking control...it just does something to me. I LOVE it.
Yeah, sure, I don't mind the girl being rough with me at all. I especially like biting and nibbling, and she can be as grabby and forceful with me as she likes. It's all very, very good.
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Yes, if she's on board with that, it's OK
and vice versa works just as well
in that the aggressor gets what they want
while the victim has little responsibility to act, other than enjoy and take what comes
I don't -really- know why.
Like you, I just find it hot. Do I want her to be rough to? Sometimes, sure it would be hot, othertimes, I want her to take it and be submissive. What I want her to do is be into it and engaged and aroused.
There is a rather dull scientific answer... As there is to everything. Life sucks. Q_Q
Oh, allright. He can tell that deep down inside you're a dirty little slut and its what you deserve. And need. Because trying to pretend to be a good girl like everyone else is exhausting, and it would be so much easier to be just used hard like you're meant to be, and have it not be your fault because he -made- you do it, and you could just let go... Better?
No... T_T I'm done with being knowledegable! I am divorcing study! Your explanation is WAY HOTTER than the clinical one.
It's sort of like beating that hoe for forcing you to spend $5 at McDonald's because of social pressure.
The streetwalkers around here all hang out at a certain harveys. true story.
I believe this! We have a very specific McDonald's at midnight that houses a few Ladies of the Night.
Im a girl and I like it. I like doing it and getting it done to me, because it is HOT!
They learned women are masochists.
Thus, they merely do what works.
And what's wrong with that?
never said anything was wrong with it, i love it! just curious why some guys love it too
Same reason you love it
it can be viewed as dramatic and passionate
... they LOVEEEEE sex baby!
me tooooooo
nah, he's been suppressing it obviously so it just kinda went BOOOOOOOMMMMMMMM!!! and the planet blew up...
well, it depends upon situation. I love to be wild sometimes especially when i get good response from my girl. I noted once she was more demanding and looking for wild moves as she was doing such things with me at the start. But sometimes, it happened many times that I want soft and romantic love with just sweet touches. I had it even and that was perfect. she was so awesome with her moves and i was to erotic too :P
Like knotme said, some girls like that sort of thing. A lot, in my experience. I of course I want them to be satisfied. ;)
I would never allow choking, even if it was playful. Immediate no go.
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