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  • At its most basic, we crave novelty more than women
    If a woman finds something that she likes sexually, she usually wants that repeated again and again. Whereas men seem to need different stimuli to stay engaged. The anus and anal sex is more taboo than vaginal sex; it’s perceived as ‘dirty’. If a woman is open to it, it implies that your sex life is ‘dirtier’, too.” And ‘dirty’ is a label that novelty-addicted guys crave – not fear.
    Anal sex avoids intimacy – cue the commitment-phobes
    The most common position in anal sex is for the woman to be bent over, with the man on top or over her, looking at her back. For men, a sense of power and domination comes with that. There’s also no real connection: there’s no face-to-face interaction, no eye contact, it avoids intimacy and is not seen as a ‘relationship experience’. In our culture, men’s emotions are more supressed than women’s. So men might find anal sex more comfortable because of the lack of intimacy, while women might find it less satisfying because of the same thing.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Butts are sexy. And a girl who can relax enough to comfortably take it in the ass is usually capable of otherwise relaxing enough to experience some pretty serious orgasms. Men love to cause intense orgasms in women. that's more a learned thing, though - I don't know that there is any kind of instinct that seeks it in that way.

    And while the desire for blow jobs is not gay, there is a tiny bit of a bisexual element to guys wanting anal. See, men's buttholes and the tip of their penis are connected. Like physically, they are all part of the same systems. Getting our butthole stretched while our penis tip is squeezed feels much like it would if we had two penis tips, both being squeezed. The end result is men who want to fuck girls in the ass have thought about what it would feel like to be fucked in the ass. They mostly avoid the details of such thoughts and don't want that done to them but they want to make a girl feel that pleasure.

    Of course there is also the more "selfish" sort of reasons, i. e. that it is tighter or that it humiliates women. But these are subjective. After enough butt sex it is no longer tighter. Plus it is only humiliating if the girl agrees that it is - there are girls who prefer it in the ass. But men with these sorts of tendencies are usually not considering a girl's preferences, anyway. Unfortunately there is no easy way to tell the difference between a guy who wants to do a girl in the butt because he wants to cause pleasure and a guy who wants to cause pain. Just have to get to know them, I guess.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I actually love it. It was something I asked my very first boyfriend to do when I was only 17. I’m not sure why, just always peaked my interest.

    I have only done it with boyfriends and I love it. It can be painful at first, but the orgasm is soooo much better that it makes it worth it. I feel like more woman would like it if they gave it an honest shot!

    I also think it’s completely hot, guys love it and it makes it that much sexier.

    • It hurts a lot more than the first time having sex though how do you get through that pain

    • I usually mix pain with pleasure. So while he’s putting it in, I play with my clit. Takes some of that pain away. Try it!

  • We don’t do this activity in our bedroom, but I think it has to do with a domination factor as well as the fact that our attractive bottoms stick out, and that draws their attention.

    People are always looking to change things up in the bedroom and this is probably one of those ideas that gained some traction.

    • I think "attractive bottoms' is the answer, Emilia!

    • @Bricealan that doesn’t always mean they want to be pummeled though🤣

    • Agree

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I much prefer to fuck a girl’s mouth. Having said that, I have enjoyed anal sex with a handful of girls. I would say what I enjoy about it is the eroticism around the fact that she is taking my dick in her ass. I am also a man who really loves a hot female ass (that photo has me getting warm!), so that is another reason anal sex is enjoyable for me. And lastly, a girls ass is the tightest hole in her body, and sometimes that tightness feels amazing. ☺️

  • Honestly I don’t get it, like it’s tight. But I feel like it’s more a flex on their other friends. Because anal’s probably more fun for them then you. So it’s like I’m so hot or this girl likes me so much we had anal.

  • Might be queer.

  • That’s one thing I’m not keen to try

  • ?

    So anal sex is something all women abhor? Give me a break.

  • Little man syndrome lol Why else I mean pussy is 1 inch away and way way way better so who TF trying to pass that up.
    To funny

  • Because 🌽 has hyped it up.
    I tell my partners, if they want to stick it up my ass, they'll have to let me do it to them first! That usually shuts them up 😂

    • What if it doesn't shut them up though? lol

    • Well then, I'm sticking a dildo up his ass. 😘

    • alright and then after that? hmmm

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  • The same some want motorboat your tits or thrust you raw and cum on your cervix so badly.. etc etc.

    Guys have fantasies and seek partners to fulfil them. Hence the importance of ensuring if you're not into something then not to lie to your partner about it.

  • I am not a fan although a few times in my life it has been offered it not my thing. I have asked girls why guys want it. They universally respond that guys say it is tighter and the girl can't get pregnant.
    I can't get past the fact that to me it's no different than swirling your dick around in a unflushed toilet. Hard pass.

  • I don’t

  • Guys are disgusting.

  • I only fuck girls in the ass if their ass is incredible. I do it for several reasons. First, it is a fucking turn on to have my cock buried inside a sexy ass. Second and more important, I want to show my power over the girl. Women think they can shake their ass around to get male attention. I like to fuck girls in the ass really hard to the point she can't take it any more. I will show her that he ass belongs to me. It is about making a woman submit. When I cum in a girls ass, I call her a fucking bitch.

    • Good lord, settle down and class up a little🤣

  • I think because anal has always had some "taboo" ideas associated with it. I have to say that women with a really nice ass, do invite some kind of sex play either from the guy's penis or his tongue. I have done both, and did my first anal 'penetration' at the point of being 'asked' to do so when I was in my late 20's. That was a 'first' from my POV, as women in my experience do NOT want it in the ass, for obvious reason (s) painful, being one. All things being equal, I think I prefer analingus, with the right girl, but that was in my 20's and things change.

  • I far prefer a vagina.

  • Two reasons...
    1. They watch porn
    2. No chance of getting you pregnant

  • I like prone bone because you can slam into the girls ass but I am not into anal

  • If I had to guess I would say it's a form of dominance considering the ass can be the hardest hole to put it in so I guess succeeding at it can be considered an accomplishment to some people

  • Little dicks, I'm guessing.

  • Because they wanna feel like a man by splitting that *** open

  • Most times it's something they see in porn and find it a turn on. I don't do anal.

    • It feels a lot different from vagina. Like trying to compare pizza and burgers.

    • I am a woman and don't know but my guy friend said it's really tight.

    • @sarahplus2 For me it’s not so much porn, as it is the view of her in that position and the tightness around my penis. It all adds up to a very hot sexual experience. And if guys would freaking learn how to be gentle and take time with it, it would be more enjoyable for women!

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