Why do some men love PDA (Public Display Of Affection)?

For example, let’s say you are seeing a man who can’t keep his hands and lips off of you and he doesn’t care how many people are around you, he always wants to kiss passionately , hug, interlace fingers with you while holding hands, hold your waist and kiss your forehead.

I wonder, why’s that they enjoy it?

Why do some men love PDA (Public Display Of Affection)?
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  • I love it , and I'm happy for others when I see it

    Reminds me of one of my naughty affairs ( I was single , she was married ) we met though the property industry , and it wasn't so much about penetrative sex ( although that happened ) , full on in Melbourne CBD in King street , just all over each other and she had all this mass of hair , it was just fantastic , think I was around 38 years old.
    It's not like " stop and watch " it's a public declaration, so many other examples always loved it , down on Southbank , reasonably recently , seriously.. What's not to love? Nothing better..

    All readers , give it a serious crack , and forget about what others think , they can keep walking.

    • I love it too. I love the fact that we are so attracted to each other, that we don’t care who’s around us or how many people watches us.

    • Exactly , your mind is in the moment , you dont even think about who is walking past or watching , it literally does not matter.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I find it sexy when a woman wants that , it’s not a dealbreaker by any stretch of the imagination but really quite desirable. Reminds me of my girl grabbing my butt in a store on the weekend and saying quite loud “ your in trouble later “ and a woman in ear shot walking past hearing her and blushing and smirking as she did. My girl put her hand to her mouth when she realised , and , just for a second a little embarrassed but In that moment I felt so desired and wanted the fitting room close by could easily have been occupied 😆 🤫🥰

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's one way of letting the world know that I'm his. I'm nit against it at all. Except for when we eat something laced with onions. I love onions, but I do NOT love onion breath!

    • I like it too.

  • Guy: Obtains girlfriend.
    Guy: Considers himself very lucky.
    Guy: Wants to show off that this girl likes him.
    Guy: smooch

    • Lmao exactly

    • We are not in a relationship yet, we are just going out on dates.

    • True,

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  • Some people like excessive PDA because they're insecure and either want the attention or want to "mark their property" so to speak… so that other people don't try to get the attention of the person they're with. 💋 ❌ 💋


    Other people are just in love and they're better at expressing themselves through physical gestures than through poetic or other romantic gestures. ❤️ 🤝 ❤️


    And of course others are possibly just too impatient to wait till they get home. 😂

  • He is claiming you for the world to see. JMO!

  • Men don't risk anything reputation-wise by doing this. On the contrary, they gain both in reputation and ego but it is not the same for women. Therefore, doing this increases the chances of that woman staying with them. It is called staking the claim or marking territory to deter competition so if you're a woman you shouldn't allow it unless you really want to be seen publicly as their partner with everything it implies. It's not a bad thing, but men will generally attempt this sooner than women might feel comfortable.

  • We both do. We're always slapping each other's butt's and kissing etc in public.

    • Samantha36 Way should be dear 👍👌

  • I absolutely love PDA. Now, I don't mean I want to have sex in public. I just mean holding hands, hugs, and Kissing. Unfortunately, I was with my ex-wife 25 years and she didn't much care for it.

    Why do I like it? I want very much to be with a woman that really wants to be with me. A woman that isn't ashamed of me. A woman that doesn't have a problem with others seeing her with me, and knowing she is mine.

    When a woman isn't willing to do PDA, I take that to mean she would rather be with someone else, but is kinda stuck with me, or killing time until she finds someone else. If she isn't willing to do PDA, that means she is ashamed to be seen with me.

  • I find it unbelievably sexy when a beautiful woman passionately kisses her boyfriend in a public setting, because it makes me so jealous and frustrated.

  • It’s their love language.

  • I don't know.. Maybe to show everyone how important she is to him?

    I'm easy going though. If she wants that, I can accommodate her, If not? That's fine also.

  • not my thing

  • You know everyone has a different comfort level

  • Well I’m a girl and I love PDA too

  • It's just his personality. He's just very outgoing in that way. That's his preference.

  • He doesn't love pda he isn't paying attention to who is watching

  • I wouldn’t mind that cause that way he shows me he loves me no matter where we are

  • Why? What's wrong with it?

  • I love doing that because I'm very affectionate and when a woman triggered that in me, I am all over her. I have done that to many women in the past, each one told me that I was to much and they were overwhelmed (blushing and impressed).

    • How does a woman trigger that in you lol

    • When she start feeling on me, kissing, wanting to be held, caressed, verbally hinting, giving me signs that she's wants me, positioning herself to be loved physically.

  • I don't understand the significance of PDA... Are they trying to make those who are single feel like shit for being without a partner? This is why people say to get a room.

    • I’m single and I’m not bitter like you are. Your misery isn’t their responsibility.

    • Why do you care enough to say anything?

    • In fact, if I had someone and those who are single felt that way, I would just do it to make them hate me and my partner more 😂😂

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  • To make others jealous and envious lol 😆

  • Kissing romantically belongs in private.

    but hugging, holding hands, arm holding, piggyback which I luv by the way, I can and will do these most of the guys i hang out with including my hubbs love it.

    when I was single and thought about asking him out I back hugged a friend while we were in barns and noble so i could read over his shoulder. lol

  • Because some people are proud to be with their women. Many couples you see in public might as well be brother and sister.

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