Why do wives agree to their husband's fetishes if it isn't really something she really wants to do?

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I am quite surprised lately with the amount of fetishes that's been going on, I'm not sure if it is because of the internet that it is becoming common or people are simply becoming more adventureous or what but it used to be that one simply had fetishes based upon how the girl was say she had blonde or red hair, more commonly it was big boobs or tall. Then there were the roleplay and uniforms. Usually those seemed that it was just a preference or just some fun to spice things up. 

I however have trouble understanding this cuckold shit. The first time I received an invitation to participate in such was as a 17 year old, by one older couple in their 60s, he simply approached me at the pub I was working at and said he enjoyed watching younger men do his wife while he watched. He did make it "interesting" by using his hunting rifle and often pointing it at me while telling me to do her real good, I didn't really care because at that time I was rather skint and could have done with their generousity. Now that old geezer thoroughly enjoyed being done by a younger guy or at least she didn't show any type of disapproval or any type of regret, often would serve tea after it was over. 

Now fast forward a decade plus, the last 3 I was a participant of were always requested by the husband and then organized by the wife. It did appear that all 3, the husband wanted to see the wife being done by a well-endowed man (not sure if colour was off matter) and 2 of it he wanted to see her being hurt. However it was always the case that it wasn't really what the wife wanted, the last 3, 2 of them cried the moment my penis penetrated her vagina. The other one, she wouldn't look at me the entire time and I could tell she simply wanted it to be over. 

I have a hard time understanding the man wanting to see such a thing happen but I have a harder time understanding why on earth would the woman agree to such a thing if it isn't what she wants?

BlueCoyote · Accepted Answer

Well, first of all, I have to say that I'm very much into cuckolding myself (haven't ever done it so far however). So you see, there are not just old men who are into this.
It makes me very sad inside that people on this site (and maybe also in real life) are so rude and mean towards people like myself. Like there's guy right here in the comments who's saying that this is "sick". No, it's not. In fact, I personally find this whole obsession with monogamy pretty sick AND sickening. Yet, I don't call anyone an asshole or a creep for doing their stuff. I wish everyone could be as open minded as I am. It's also sort of ridiculous because cuckolding is basically nothing more than a mental version of BDSM. It's like 50 shades of grey for intellectuals (intellectuals tend to be more into cuckolding, you can actually google that). I don't like physical pain, I like mental/emotional pain. I understand that this may sound weird to some people but it pisses me off that they treat me with so much arrogance just because I have a fetish that's different than theirs. It's like with homosexuality. Who do I harm? Nobody. Why do I need to get discriminated for it and why do people have to be so mean and condescening about it? Just before in another question I had a discussion about this with another girl and once I told her about this fetish of mine, she got super rude and called me "sick" and "you should die" and "your girlfriend should leave you" all that terrible stuff. People assume I am some kind of psycho just because watching my hot girlfriend fuck another guy turns me on. I understand this is the internet and I shouldn't take everything personal but it still totally breaks my heart.
I have been together with my girlfriend for a very long time (much longer than most of these haters with their girlfriends/boyfriends) and we have an absolutely great relationship. We're still very much in love with each other. When I asked her to cheat on me, she was first weirded out too but after many long talks in which I told her about my thoughts and feelings, she got to understand me very well. She did however, refuse to do it (at least for the moment) and I whole-heartedly accepted that. Yes, I was disappointed a lot but I would NEVER for my girlfriend to do anything she doesn't want. If that's really true what you're saying, these men are idiots. It's not ok to do that. You should always respect a "no", even if it's very hard. And girls shouldn't just do it to please their man.

Starrk · Accepted Answer

Love make you do some crazy things. Those wives loved their husbands so much that they agreed to do it for the sole purpose of making their husbands happy.

As for the husband, well that cuckold fetish is suppose to be a type of humiliation fetish. The husband gets turned on seeing their women enjoying having sex with another guy while they are "made" to watch. The humiliation and the helplessness that the husband endures is a sexual turn on, which is why the husband usually look for guys who are well endowed, younger, and sometimes black, because that adds to the fantasy of being inadequate for the wife. I know it sounds weird, but thats the psychology behind that fetish.

tattooedhandfet · Accepted Answer

I WANNA FUCK SOMETHING👍 Just thought I would share. Love the story

AustinMan · Answer

It sounds like the women felt trapped with nowhere to go if they refused. There is also the chance that they loved it and that crying or otherwise pretending to not like it was part of the scene.

ciearamarie · Answer

i think this is so wrong

Old_School · Answer

Wifes love their husband and will do anything to fulfill their desires. The fact that the husband wanted to be cuckold is bad. I call that bad leadership on the husbands part. Marriage is a sacred thing and the fact the husband wants other men to have sex with his is sick.