Why do you settle for sex without orgasms?

Why do you settle for sex without orgasms?
The results of some of my polls indicate that with effort, a woman is capable of more orgasms than a man. Yet studies show that women orgasm during sex less frequently than men.

I did a poll (vote here) asking if the reason is because anorgasmic sex isn't that much less pleasurable than orgasmic sex, but most people said that anorgasmic sex is much less pleasurable than orgasmic sex.

So what's the deal? Why settle for zero orgasms when most women are capable of multiple orgasms, if they and their partner try?
My partner doesn't commit to making me orgasm
Vote A
My partner tries to make me orgasm, but doesn't succeed
Vote B
It takes too long for me to attain orgasm, & my partner isn't willing to commit to that
Vote C
It takes too long for me to attain orgasm, & I don't want to bother
Vote D
I'm just as satisfied without orgasm as with an orgasm
Vote E
Other
Vote F
I don't have the sexual experience to answer this question
Vote G
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  • I get more pleasure from pleasing her than getting off myself, always been that way. Plus less chance for a pregnancy scare

  • How can women orgasm? Men are ugly and hairy. Men don't have boobs and ass. They are not sexy as women.

    • 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • Why laugh. No wonder all women are bisexual and a little bit gay.

  • Usually he makes me cum but sometimes I don't cum and that is totally okay. I don't need orgasm all the time I need him near me and just feel him. He also sometimes don't cum and that is also okay. We both don't chase orgasm we just like sex because it is pleasurable and we have an intense connection

  • Could you breath without air?

  • Me and my girls always cum

  • I always take care of the woman until she has had enough. She always takes care of me.

  • Procreation counts for 83% of my sexual value. Pleasures counts for 17% of my sexual value.

    I am 5 times happier penetrating my way into fatherhood than enjoying a brief orgasm adventure.

    • Says the guy who isn't even a father

  • My partner tried but didn't' always succeed but we were patient and finally found a position

  • I always cum inside your mother.
    It’s the best 👍

    • Cumming home for the holidays 😂

  • It's not settling when you still give your partner pleasure.

  • Yess

  • what’s the point then i think it’s called selfish

  • I think women are basically taught that sex is more for men and it’s just a bonus if we get off. Cultural conditioning.

    • Also, women tend to have ways to orgasm that work for her, but for all men are supposed to love sex, they get bored more easily and need constant novelty which means more positions and acts that may not work for her.

  • For me and my partner, it normally takes me awhile to orgasm so he normally tries and gets me pretty damn close. Then as we're cuddling I get myself off multiple times, and I'm completely satisfied with this ;D

  • I am more into making my partner cum and feel good so if i dont orgasm yes it can be frustrating but its not a biggie so lomg as they feel good

    • It is nice that you feel this way. But talk to your boyfriend if he is willing to concentrate 100% on you for the next five times sex because you every time helped him with his orgasm.

    • I dont have one at the moment he cheated and dumped me

  • Sometimes that happens to please your partner.

  • A study has shown about 10 percent of women actually can't orgasm. That's why I put other.