Why does he like to say “you’re mine” (in a harmless way) during sex?

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Daniela1982 Master
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Are either of you cheating or thinking of someone else?
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kyleelyn199723 Guru
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It’s a dominance thing. You surrendered your body to him and gave your body up to him. That is not the same “you’re mine” that are on Valentine’s Day heart candies.
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ChrisMaster69 Master
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Being possessive, Dominant type of thing.
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  It turns me on when he does. You give good answers from what I’ve read. So why do men like to feel possession?
- ChrisMaster69
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  It’s not just guys, girls are also possessive , Domminant, With guys it’s often that old cave man thing breaking out, where it’s ‘you are mine to breed with’ There is a bit of a split between being possessive and being Dominant. Someone being Possessive, are often overly possessive Whereas normally a Dominant is about control, but control within informed consent, A Possessive person saying you are mine, may actually 100% mean it, and can potentially go down the controlling access to others bit. A Dominant, should do this with your consent, you agree that you are his, mutual respect and trust. The worst types are Possessive Dominants. To keep things open and honest, it’s worth reminding the other person when they say ‘You are Mine’ Reply, ‘Yes I am yours, because I let you’ It’s that gentle reminder that power and control is given but can be taken away.
- Asker
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  Yeah, he’s not possessive in daily life from what I’ve seen so far. The only time I’ve seen him get annoyed (irrationally in my opinion) was when I’d talk to other men in a totally friendly manner only - no interest in sex etc at all! And I’ve felt him on edge getting uneasy so I’d stop.
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- ChrisMaster69
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  A proper D/s relationship is one that moves in and out of ‘character’ . It’s worth playing along with it and part of the role, However you do need to sit down and talk about the entire ownership thing and beyond.
- Asker
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  I’m not sure whether that was playing though or not. As for talking I’ve no idea what to say or where to start there.
- ChrisMaster69
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  Well part of the entire this is, How much do you get off on the feeling of being owned?
- Asker
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  A lot in the bedroom. A more normal/average amount outside of that I’d say.
- ChrisMaster69
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  Would you be happy moving more to a BDSM style relationship, where you both accept the current role play more permanently
- Asker
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  Depends what it’d entail, but possibly.
- ChrisMaster69
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  Well relationships are built on Trust, Respect, Honesty and Communication You get to trust each other more, learn to communicate more, be open and honest with each other. Personally it brings you closer
- Asker
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  There are many routes to that, but yeah I can see how that’s one.
- ChrisMaster69
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  It also allows you both to explore other kinks you may have in a safe space

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Berethor Master
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He is territorial, as a man should be.
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Roguehoneylife Xper 3
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It’sa possessive thing, very common and normal. As long as he isn’t controlling you it’s all good
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MrTuxedo Yoda
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It probably makes him feel dominant over you.
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- Asker
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  Well I like to feel submissive to him during sex too
- MrTuxedo
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  If so, you can try to reply to that with "I'm yours" or simply with "Yes [his name or dirty name]"
- Asker
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  I like that
JosyJosy Master
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possessive, dominant thing as long as it's in a harmless way like you said, it's fine
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Abinav08 Xper 1
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I think he's showing dominance over you.. and it's quite normal most time
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Anonymous
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jus funny innit
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