Why does he produce a lot of sperm but his dick doesn’t get hard?

Is he not attracted to me physically?

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  • A lot of sperm.. well that’s relative.. dick getting “hard” well that’s relative too.. both are dependent on whats normal for him so before looking at anything else , searching and asking questions maybe start there and compare with your own experience with him I. e if you do this then does this happen !

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  • He could have ED from any number of reasons, physical and psychological. Most commonly would be if he watches loads of porn and you're not doing what they do in the videos he may not get the mental switch he's used to.

    Try getting him away from all porn for a week. Total cold turkey. Then see how he reacts.

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  • Semen production is genetic and similarly he may have issues with not being a rock hard guy. Also he could be mentally distracted by something while trying to engage with you. If so it could be anything.

    If he is trying to engage in sexual activity with you obviously he is attracted.

  • How do you get sperm from him if he’s not hard?

  • He who?

  • Ejaculation isn't reliant on that.

    Maybe he has an issue like ED?

  • Erection and ejaculation are two completely separate and distinct physical things.

    A soft flaccid penis can still ejaculate, while an erect penis may not ejaculate at all.

    It's unlikely it has anything to do with your attractiveness.

    If this happens only occasionally, it's probably okay. Enjoy the fact that he ejaculates.

    If you and he are concerned, especially if this happens most of the time, he should see a doctor.

  • No, it's not an attraction problem. Your technique might not be the best for him, but a lot circumcised men struggle with getting enough stimulation in sex.

  • He may have ED. I suggest you have him speak to his doctor about it.

  • It can depend on the type of stimulation being given (it is NOT your fault). And it has nothing to do with whether or not he likes you, again, not your fault.

    It's purely physiological. There are means by which it is relatively simple to create an orgasm with minimal erection. The arousal stage is bypassed, and the body is almost instantly cranked to the ejaculation stage, with almost no time for an erection to develop.

  • might be masturbation addiction or testosterone imbalances. probably best to see a doc for him.

  • No. He might be stressed out.

  • I assume you're talking about pre-cum? Some men require verbal or physical stimulation. I usually just get a semi, if I see a woman naked. In order to get fully hard, she has to show some sort of sexual interest or emotional interest

  • He probably cums a lot to begin with. If he wasn't attracted to you, then he'd never cum.

  • I’m not a cockologist. But I’d say Something is wrong with the cock. Lick it like you would a lollipop see if that works, and if not throw it back and get another one.

  • I only have experience with one dick and I got my own problems.

    This one is a doozy though. I’d be interested in opinions…lol

  • One has nothing to do with the other. Some people don’t get as hard as others do, erectile dysfunction or even “growers vs showers”. sperm production depends on the person and age and so on.

  • thats a good production ability.

    • Yeah but he doesn’t get hard

    • so how he cums?

  • No i think smth wrong with his dick

  • In most cases a man’s penis has its own mind. A man could get a hard on just from the wind blowing on it. If he’s standing up against a washing machine or drier the vibration of it would set it off. Most men would get a hard on if a girl, who wasn’t really the cutest came up to him and started rubbing it, giving him oral, etc. This might be a medical issue. Maybe he’s stressed about things. It could be a mental block. If he knows this happens all the time it’s probably happening because he’s putting a lot of pressure on himself to perform. Not only that he knows that this has happened numerous times so in his mind he’s already expecting it not to happen, so again it’s a mental block because he’s already given up before he’s given it a shot.