Why does it matter if girls have a big or small butt?

[Anonymous]

I'm watching these videos on youtube and people are saying that girls with flat asses shouldn't wear high waist jeans or short dresses and its pissing the hell out of me. Just because a girl has a small butt doesn't mean that people can get mad when she wears revealing cloths. Having a small butt is an advantage in my point of view; no men slapping/grabbing your ass, you can fit in pants easier, and overall men won't take advantage of you as much.
Me having no ass, I don't fucking care if you don't like me wearing mini skirts. I like wearing them and that's all that should matter. I'm not dressing up for attention, I'm dressing up cause it makes me feel good about myself.
Of course if you have an ass I'm not hating. I think everyone is beautiful in their own way. I just am sick of guys laughing at girls like me when we wear clothing that shows off our body. You can be attracted to what you want but please don't judge girls for it.
And I know there are some guys who don't care if girls have a big or small butt. Thank god for them.
But this world is messed up. Yeah butts are attractive because you can grab them and they juggle an shit. Did guys ever think that hearing and feeling isn't the most important thing in the world. That girls with small butts can turn you on, love you just as much as girls with butts can.
I'm sorry but I would never date a guy who prefers big butts because their just extra fat on your body.

[claw09]

I know most guys like the fatty "cottage cheese" ass from the BBW world, however, when most guys say big ass, they mean a toned ass. What ass men are looking for is muscle in the glutes. That's what makes a big and firm butt.

Personally, I'm more of a hips guy that likes a nice ass to compliment them.

Also, who are you to tell me what can and can't turn me on. Most guys like big asses. Ok, so what? Just find yourself a guy who likes small ones. They're out there.

[Asker]

I wasn't trying to tell you what can and can't turn you off. I was trying to say that they shouldn't judge girls without a big ass. Yeah, don't date me if you don't like my ass I don't care. Just don't tell me to my face that you don't like my small ass in front of a bunch of strangers and friends. That I should cover myself up just cause people don't like my tiny ass showing.

[claw09]

No one does that. Just seems like you either posted online and got met with trolls or live in a city and met a handful of dicks. Most guys don't do that

[Asker]

Neither. Just some guy in my class...

[claw09]

... You could have restructured this and say it's a rant than a claim that all guys think this way.

[TheCunningLinguist]

A bigger more Shapely butt is it genetic sign ot fertility and a woman's ability to carry healthy offspring. So you're talking about tens of thousands of years of genetic hardwiring. It is nothing against you. So, don't take it personally. So actually this skinny small butts were the trend Not the genetic Norm of Interest

[TheCunningLinguist]

At least for heterosexual males anyway.

[CutandDry]

Butts are on trend... so the beauty industry needs you to believe your ass needs to be “fixed” so you will spend money and make an effort to be in style. Also butts are soft during sex, considered feminine... im hoping that the hype will die. I don’t have an ass either.

[Gothicangel27]

That's so fucking true I have a butt it's a pain

[NJ_Casanova]

You can do/wear what you feel sexy... but that doesn't mean it's flattering for you to wear it.

[NJ_Casanova]

A girl <18 shouldn't be allowed to wear sexy/revealing clothes anyway... at least in the USA. It's like child pornography.

[GuitarManAustin]

I agree with you. I dont get why its such a big deal. I couldnt care less about any sort of size, just what the girl is like

[Reaperbot666]

in some cultures a woman having a big or small butt is a sign of fertility or good breeding gens.

[TheBooman]

Well Tbh I am not a butt guy so I don't know. All I know is the psychological need for girls with big butts show wide hips capable of giving birth. Oh also they cannot lie

[mrsingle]

It never mattered to me

[Jaytoo]

Idgaf what kind of butt someone has. Honestly

[hellacray]

It's a stupid trend and I'm pretty annoyed a out it too. I don't really care for the butt too much.

[CareerGamer]

I just like seeing butt.

[Ranude2011]

3 inch penis vs 7 inch penis.
Small ass vs Big ass.

[Asker]

I didn't mean it like that. I mean of course every person would choose the 7 inch penis, same as big ass. I should've made it more clear but what I meant was that, yeah I get that you would rather be with a girl with a big ass but guys shouldn't judge girls for it. Like I wouldn't tell the guy with a 3 inch penis that he is a turnoff I would keep that to myself because I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings. Go ahead and like big ass girls more but don't go telling lots of people publicly that, that girl with a small ass is unattractive. That she isn't aloud to wear certain things because guys don't want to see a small ass. They expect you to hide it. Which is wrong, and what I meant.

[Ranude2011]

Yeah in that case you're right. Society is bodyshaming everyone

[Asker]

Yeah. Ill make sure to update it when I can to make it more clear to what I'm trying to say. Thanks.

[Maxemeister]

Biologically? It's better for bearing children

Guys are allowed to prefer what they prefer. When you try to enforce your beliefs on them that they should perform a sort of "service" to these girls that don't need it by dating them, it's ridiculous.

Preference exists, get used to it

[Insanyx12]

I like personality

[Anonymous]

''I'm not dressing up for attention, I'm dressing up cause it makes me feel good about myself.''

So I guess you must dress up like that while in doors too...
I don't know why people can't just be honest. The truth is that you dress up to feel good about yourself, and too get attention...