Why does my boyfriend like to hurt me during sex?

[FlowerClouds123]

So... kinda weird asking this here but i’m to shy to ask anywhere or anyone else.
My lovely boyfriend of one year is the most wonderful person i know. I (21) really love him (23)
But sometimes he can get very harsh..
Last time we had sex was after an argument where he did’nt like my attitude and he thinks the only way i learn is by being put in place. So he pushed me in to the bedroom and on to the bed and started doing things... i do learn this way but talking to me works too but its like he want’s me to feel pain instead of talking to me and sometimes he can get so rough with me for the smallest reason so that i can’t even sit normally for a week, when i ask why he starts talking about something else.
Does anyone else work this way? Why does it have to hurt to make me understand?

[Berethor]

You say that you love him so looks like that approach is working in your relationship. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AllGirlsWantBadBoys

[Reaperbot666]

most likely a dominance thing or has watched to much porn.

[purplepoppy]

Men respond to vocalizations during sex. A moan from pain sounds just like one from pleasure so if he can't do one he'll do the other

[FlowerClouds123]

He likes when i scream and try to get away. I dont blame him from wanting it so harsh i just want to understand why he likes it

[On_cloud_wine]

I didn’t swallow during a bj session and he cut my hair off. I swallow like a good girl now. Yes, you’re not the only one.

[CreamySeed]

What a gentleman

[ari1010]

What the hell

[Peggysue4u2]

Omfg that's insane r u guys for real?

[CreamySeed]

@Peggysue4u2 yea bro he’s definitely a keeper

[Peggysue4u2]

Lol wtf

[CreamySeed]

@Peggysue4u2 need a haircut peggy?

[Peggysue4u2]

Lol r they for real

[NakedsunNfun]

YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS ASS

[Meangurl]

You should leave now. No lady deserves to be treated like that.

[Valnac]

If you don’t like it, let him know.
If he try’s giving you another lesson, walk out the door, go to a movie, shopping... let him think about it for a while. Tell him if he try’s that again, you’ll be gone for good.

[Agonist]

If you like that type of sex, that is great. If you do not like that type of sex, you need to defend yourself or seek help.

[Anonymous]

That is not normal behavior on his part; he is a toxic abuser and you should get out now.

[Anonymous]

If ur not into the pain in a kinky way then its not cool

[Anonymous]

You should leave him, he's an abuser; they act all sweet and lovely, but when something sets them off it is like they flipped a switch.