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Sexual Health Why does my boyfriend want to watch another guy fuck me?
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My boyfriend is my first. I was a virgin before him. Recently, he has asked about the idea of a MMF threesome or even cuckolding. Is the reasomn he wants this because I have only had sex with him? He just left it at "watching anouther guy fuck you would be hot". what does this mean? Do guys actually like that idea? As a girl, I'd never want to watch him fuck another girl!
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10 24I wouldn't want to watch her with another guy but I would want to watch her with another girl.
Aww really :)
Did u do that?
Okay, well I don't have this fantasy but I think I get this logic and I'll explain how I do...
I like weight lifting, I'm progressing but I'm a average/skinny guy. When I see a hot girl lift more weight than I can, I get turned on. Why? Because, although it may not totally be true, I make an assumption that she won't be into me because she can lift more than me and she's "out of my reach". So, that helps me exert more testosterone and work harder, and makes me hornier.
In this case, your boyfriend has a fantasy of you screwing another guy because he's "not good enough" for you, which he doesn't ACTUALLY believe because he's with you, but it makes your value skyrocket and now you're a lot higher on the scale, you're out of his reach. Naturally, when someone comes easy for a guy, they exert less testosterone, when they have to compete, they exert more. It drives up our hormonal levels.
Does that make sense?
It's all about reaching the unreachable girl, the ultimate "putting the pussy on the pedestal".
It's just a fetish, it's not that uncommon. I'm into it myself not for a reason of virgin or no virgin it just simply turns me on
Some guys like that, maybe he has a submissive fetish. Other guys hate this and wouldn't tolerate it. I would and could never do that.
yup definitely a weirdo
so threesomes are weird?
to you that you still have a healthy conscience yes. to a girl that watches porn and had many partners would probably seem normal.
some guys do unfortunately... Occasionally I'll find such a scenario in porn a turn on, but rarely. I would also never ever actually do this... But it is more common than you think with some men... many especially who feel unworthy of women.
I think I get this sort of because I used to feel worthless in dating, but now I know better. Either way, it is tough convincing him that he is worthy of you, or women in general.
Fuck No