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Guys, Why does my girlfriend won't send me nudes and feels humiliated about it, even though we sext a lot?

I know her from 7 months+ We have done quite extreme sexting, and she enjoys it too. We even share extremely graphic online nudity to depict things. But she doesn't like the idea of sharing nudes, and when asked, she says it's humiliating for a girl and against her principals and morals, which I respect. We sext a lot and go quite graphic. But how does it makes sense, what morals, and what principals with sharing them with your partner? How is it humiliating to share things with me, and not so humiliating when sharing explicit stuff like gifs and images with other girls in them. We also love each other a lot and even say things like 'You are my one,' so I don't understand how it is humiliating when she's sharing with me. I mentioned these things, even said that I am not convincing her either and want to discuss it. She says, 'I am right, and she understands,' but she can't do it, and it's hard. I read other forums, not similar to my case, but generally, people say its a trust issue, but we love each other so much that it seems unlikely, but I would want an opinion. I won't have any problems with her, not sending me nudes, not even necessary. Still, I want to know why she won't respond to any conversation related to that and keeps on saying to 'let's skip the conversation about it.'
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Superb Opinion

  • Are you more embarrassed by saying the word "penis" or by showing yours? That's why. Words are basically nothing. Besides, regardless of if she trusts you, what if you two get in a fight later? Will she still trust you then, when it's too late and you already have the picture? If you ever break up? What if your phone gets stolen? Or there's an accidental post? There are a lot of reasons not to take or send nude pictures. At the end of the day, "no means no." If she doesn't want to do it, that's that. There really doesn't even need to be more reason than that.

Most Helpful Girl

  • This is not an easy choice for any woman. You are asking her to make a choice that could follow her around forever. The fear of you showing your buddies or those photos finding their way onto the internet is quite real. 7 months is not that long a time and some womej don't feel comfortable with it. A few men have my nudes and I always worry what they may do with them or if they already have. You should respect her feelings in this matter. I assume you are having sex so why do you need nudes if you can see the real thing? She likely wants you to stop talking about it as she likely is uncomfortable with it and no woman likes to be pressured into acts that are inherently sexual.

    • Please read the update @mstaniauncensored

    • well those can be tough although most of what I said doesn't change regardless. Long distance is not an easy thing and it us up to you whether or not you can handle that. In the end trust can only go so far. Drspite what anyone believes none of us can truly 100% know someone or see what the future holds.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Never ask for or send nudes. You already SEE her naked anyway.

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What Girls Said

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  • Every girl is different about what and how much she is comfortable sharing. You don't need to understand it, just respect her preferences and be happy w what you get :)

    • Please read the update @dancinggirl

  • I have sent Towel like pics to my ldr guy. Sometimes we sext but only when he is in the mood. He has sent pics of him in underwater, no shirt. Not every woman on this subject, wants to, feels embarrassed. Respect her.

    • Case closed okay then.

What Guys Said

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  • She might have had a really bad experience exchanging nudes in the past.

  • It's not unusual to gave a rule against nudes. You should have a tall about it though.

  • She likely doesn't feel comfortable with it

    If she said no, don't push it.

    You wouldn't want her doing that to you, right?

  • You'd have to ask her why. If she "is the one", you should have no issue with this

  • Don't ask for her nudes because presently she is averse to idea. Sexting and sending nudes are not one and same thing.

  • Sexting is very different than sharing nudes.

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