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Sexual Health Why does society slut-shame on women but not on men? Are you against slut-shaming or do you think both men and women should be slut-shamed?
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Before you f*cktards get offended, i want to say that especially conservative people IN MY EXPERIENCE are hypocritical when it comes to sexuality. So it is an anectodal statement. I mean you are either slut shame on both men or women or noone. I personally see no reason to slutshame anybody. I also think if you are promiscuous man, go find someone like you.
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I also dont understand some f*ggots who blame women for promiscuous men. As if men can't say No to sex.
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Nobody should be slut shammed, but the consequences of promiscuous behavior is worse for women, not so for men. The hypocrisy from conservative circles comes from this understanding.
This understanding or mind set makes no sense. You also can say noone would want a an used lollipop
But thank you for your reply! I appreciate
Okay. But do you see there is a difference between men getting sexual partners and women getting sexual partners? @TonyBologna25 highlighted it more elaborately. A woman has to do nothing to get sex, a man has to make the approach. So the ability to do that in a man is seen as successful (because it requires effort), the ability in a woman isn't - she's just making herself available. Add this to the real life fact that promiscuity comes at a greater cost (safety, pregnancy, even STDs etc) to women. I'm not saying it's fair, but it's the way it is.
But is not woman's fault that they have it easy. Nobody should be slut shamed
Nobody should be shammed if we are a kind society. But I hope you see the difference between a man sleeping around and a woman sleeping around.
I get it a little bit but are you against slut shaming?
Absolutely.
And are you especially against slut shaming on women
Given that it's more widespread - yes. But it's hard to defend a woman who's doing that because she does it at her own risk and brings that indignity to herself. I wouldn't stand by seeing someone slut sham a girl I knew or cared for in anyway, but I will tell her that if she values herself, she won't do that.
But is not her fault. She does not have the fault that she has it easy. I really dont understand the point of shaming people who dont hurt you in any way. I think you reduce women to their sexual activity. Enjoying sex does not make you less valuable
But it does - because it shows you can commit and next thing you know you're the pleasure sack for every boy in the neighborhood. That's exactly what you don't get - it being easier for her isn't her advantage, it's the benefit of the guys around her. Her biological clock ticks faster and unless she finds a man who truly cares for her and will stick along (instead of just pleasure), she's going to feel used.
*you can't commit...
You're 20 now. Let's say you find a guy as a S. O. it goes on for 3 years, you break up. You're 23 then. You take a while to trust men again. You find someone at 24, you get to know him, by 26-27 you get married. See? That's still considered late for many girls. Your chances of finding a quality match if that relationship also broke (after age 27) is going to get harder. So as a girl, you have 2 shots or 3 shots to a nice life with someone. Some people may slut sham, some people may tell you like this - either ways sleeping around is not a good idea for your own sake. Do what you want, it's your life. But you see a gang of bros absolutely love a slut - till she's "got it". That's what you aren't understanding at age 20.
But a man also can pay prostitutes and become promiscuous due to it very easy. And she again has to face consequences because men in the neighborhood think she is used? Biological clock is an excuse to shame on women and also you can become promiscuous and marry before "your biological clock ticks till the end". The fucking mindset should be changed and by saying women should not be promiscuous because they are less valuable the mindset does not going to change
"You're 20 now. Let's say you find a guy as a S. O. it goes on for 3 years, you break up. You're 23 then. You take a while to trust men again. You find someone at 24, you get to know him, by 26-27 you get married. See? That's still considered late for many girls. Your chances of finding a quality match if that relationship also broke (after age 27) is going to get harder. So as a girl, you have 2 shots or 3 shots to a nice life with someone. Some people may slut sham, some people may tell you like this - either ways sleeping around is not a good idea for your own sake. Do what you want, it's your life. But you see a gang of bros absolutely love a slut - till she's "got it". That's what you aren't understanding at age 20." I rather want to die alone than getting reduced to a meat. These so called bros deserve the worst for reducing to their sex life
These so called bros deserve the worst for reducing women to their sex life
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It's not me saying that. It's how society will always be - we're hardwired that way. Men have to be more promiscuous - because they always are expected to make the first move. Women are supposed to be less promiscuous and more picky because they need to get the right man (soon). The biological clock is a reality - you'll understand that in 6 or 7 years, the number of guys who hit on you will drop drastically. But it's not the case with men - they come to their prime around that age when they become financially independent, make an impression of themselves. I'm not shamming you girl, you live life the way you want. I'm just giving you some wisdom from what I know about life. And that wisdom says you won't be respected if you open your legs often because it requires no talent/skill from a woman's side to actually do that. Prostitutes do it for money because the circumstances of life have lead them there unfortunately. Trust me, you don't want that life. You can have something far more special - but you have to be picky for that.
"These so called bros deserve the worst for reducing women to their sex life" Yeah, they are going to chance. What you can do is not be easily available to them.
... and by saying that women should not be promiscuous, otherwise they are less valuable would not change this disgusting mindset
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"Yeah, they are going to chance. What you can do is not be easily available to them." I am not promiscuous but if I was one, i only would sleep around with men who respect me and does not have this disgusting mindset
Exactly - you're being picky. Wouldn't you say you're doing that for your own good regardless of what society told you?
Nah, women who hook up at the drop of a hat need to be slut shamed, dead right, cus that's what they is
You should be stoned
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