Why don't I enjoy being fingered?

[to_ri]

Every time a guy fingers me I don't like it and I don't hate it either I'm beginning to think something is wrong with me because no matter how much a guy fingers me I never cum

[Apope16]

My girlfriend doesn't enjoy it either. I've had sex with several girls and gotten girls to squirt using the gspot. And she just doesn't seem to like it.

Why? Well I discovered that her labia is super sensative and the first few inches of her vagina is how she cums. In other words she likes shallow penetration and clit stimulation. I notice when she rides me she orgasms with the tip of my penis and shallow penetration even though my dick is 8 inches.

So I would suggest for you to consider that maybe you like shallow penetration. And if you are with a guy trying to have him do more shallow thrusting. Lucky you the length of the guy won't matter much to get off.

Some girls are more Clit orgasm girls and other girls are more Deep penetration girls.

[TheorionMage]

The obvious question, when YOU have the direct neural feedback from YOUR genitals, and YOU finger 'you' are you able to bring yourself to climax?

If 'yes', then its your mission to 'school' your fortunate 'Suitor'---

Otherwise, time to seek examination by both your Gynecologist to rule out physical infirmities
and a Psychologist to query possibly hidden past misadventures that are denying you your rightful pleasurings borne of fear or guilt.

[wheist9095]

It could be that they're doing it wrong, you would be surprised how many guys have absolutely no idea how to use their hands on a woman. It's honestly almost depressing. The only thing I can think of to test it would be if you can make yourself come by fingering, because you know what you like.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you cum in other ways when your partner is getting you aroused?

[JackSmy]

Maybe he isn't doing it "RIGHT" and you aren't telling him what you want, and how?
Are you maybe embarrassed, that he is touching you, so personally? Are you afraid to relax, and let go, and just enjoy the feelings? Some personal, or religious issues?

[JPrez]

You're not going to cum from fingering. You need your love button stimulated.

[slatyb]

Everyone has their preferences. If you don't like it, don't let them do it. Tell then what you do like. If they won't accommodate you, dump them and find a guy who will.

[LiamSawyer]

Maybe they don't know how to use their fingers properly they need to do more then just stick their fingers in your vagina.

[exitseven]

Maybe they are not doing it right. It takes a light touch.

[bowenw]

Everyone is different. Do you enjoy fingering yourself, or just when a guy does it and doesn't make you cum? You may have to show him exactly how and where you like to be fingered.

[Millicano]

Do you like it when you finger yourself?

[hhH2traveler]

Everyones body responds differently. Its not a big deal, good thing its not uncomfortable for you, he can finger you for his image of it, and then you can tell him how to really get you off.

[Wise4myage]

They aren't doing it right, so why not show them?

[Glasgow55]

You just don't like it. There isn't anything wrong. I don't like having my balls sucked, but there's nothing wrong. Everyone is different. Just tell him you don't like it and try something else. Good luck.

[Ilickvulvas]

Because they’re piss poor and don’t know where your G spot is.
What’s the difference between a G spot and a golf ball?
A guy will never stop looking for a golf ball

[Lucious22]

Yeah had a girl that’s the same, I don’t really see the reason for fingering when you can eat pussy or use a vibrator or a dildo

[_Troian_]

I don't like to finger aswell.. I like to bang

[glassman]

Maybe your not moist enough because you are to tense thinking about it

[Joker_]

You just don't

[Guardian45]

I DON'T pick anyone's nose!

[Valnac]

He obviously isn’t doing it right.
Do you cum when you finger yourself?

[Waldoe]

do you cum when you masturbate? I suspect that you do not masturbate... its a matter of being able to "Let go"...