Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
* Does she want me to "go downtown" or is she uptight about her personal odor/taste?
* Is she open to me using a vibrator on her?
* If she starts giving me oral sex, should I just enjoy it and maybe she will allow me to cum in her mouth OR maybe she will throw up and then run away.
* If I touch her "back there," will she freak out or ask for more?
I could ask her, "Hey. Would you like to try anal sex?" If she isn't into that, I wonder whether she will think that I am a freak and I will never see her again.
Once upon a time (2007,) a new girlfriend agreed to have sex and, when we got in bed, she told me
a. she likes to have her nipples caressed and sucked,
b. she likes to give oral sex but doesn't want to receive oral sex,
c. if she gives me oral sex, it is okay to cum in her mouth, but she doesn't do that very often because she would rather have me cum inside her,
d. she likes to have her clit massaged but don't put a finger inside of her.
e. I can touch her ass but no penetration, and
f. she likes missionary, cowgirl, and doggy.
Bingo! I knew how far to go, I wasn't worried about freaking her out, and I relaxed. Sex with her was fun (but we eventually broke up for other reasons.)
If you were in bed with a relatively new boyfriend and he asked if you were into anal sex, would it bother or embarrass you or would you answer in a matter-of-fact manner? If he asked if he could cum in your mouth, would you think that was disgusting? Could you tell him your limits or would you be too nervous, shy, inhibited, or otherwise consumed with cat-got-your-tongue?
What Girls Said
(21)You just got to see where the line ends and begins just keep going father until she stops you then you'll know
Guys, why are you always in hurry to experience all in one go? Why don"y you go slowly and see what a girls wants or dislikes? Why do you expect that girl should tell you each and every point?
Try yourself to understand her.
I'm not that open about the bedroom I don't know maybe because I feel like I'll be judging for being too demanding, boring or kinky (depending on the guy of course)
Man do you also want the map of the erogenous points?
Discover!
Having a partner suddenly say "no!" or pull away from us in rejection is an unpleasant experience.
I am always very CLEAR and STRAIGHT FORWARD what the limits are from the get go ALWAYS.
If he asked, I'd tell him.
With my boyfriend I have learned to keep an open mind since he usually the who wants to try things in the bedroom and sometimes I will even get an idea on what I want try. The only thing that my boyfriend and I won't do is a threesome since we wouldn't like to bring someone else into our relationship.
I think it's fine to ask her straight out if she is into this or that. The problem comes when after she says no, the guy keeps trying to find ways to get her to do it anyway.
because some guys find it a turn off if the girl raises all kinds of red flags, so we do what they do what they believe they must to keep the guy happy, even if sometimes that may end up with a sore butt/throat at the end of the day..
besides, if i was so conservative i would have never been so active or love my boyfriend as much, and he was the one who convinced me to be more sexually open in the first place so yeah
so they do what they believe they must*