Why dose guy's want to watch a girl finger her self?

[Anonymous]

Guy's help me out on this one. So I want to know what dose guys think N what do you man get from it. So my ex and I have been on an off with each other not like dating again but always end up some how talking again. We call are self's friends and carp but ah the only thing I feel we are, r FWB'S. I Mean at one point when we started to hanged out we was kis making out little by little but did other stuff fun wise outside the bed room. by the way point is: any time him an I do hook up witch it's not as much as we once did before and I'm fine with that. But I notice during sex of in the middle of sex he starts to finger me ok that's fine cool I like. Then a little bit behind that he always says he want to watch me do it. I'm not sure why.. I mean I'll be honset I have done it an still do it but only when I'm alone at home or horny enough an it's no one to take care of it for me lol or if I'm watching a p*rn video. But with my ex boyfriend I should be more comfortable around him expressing my self to him in that way I mean since he is like the only guy I mess around with for now. I mean I have kissed two other guy's and let 3 finger me but nothing over the top what I do with my ex. I'm not sure if he has has sex with other girls or another girl, but I feel like in a way he may have. But also that's him Not me and I wouldn't be mad if he said he did but idc. I never been the type of girl to Fuck!!! any oooh body. And also I never get out of my comfort zone and done the whole playing with myself in front of guya like that, only by my myself I do usually. But I have become a little more open inro giving him bj's and letting him hit from the back not anal shyt tho. Btw: why dose he want me to play with myself in front of him. Is it b, c he wants to watch, he gets off on it, maybe want to learn from it, or to see myself giving me pleasure other then him using his. I did ask him why: and he saif b. c he thinks it's hot. How is it hot to see a girl fingering her self?

[countrydude]

For one thing it is hot to see a nice wett V and to watch a female get off. its actually funn to dit across from hear and stroke at same time. for me woman nasturbating gets me off. lol especial p*rn.
but Im guessing. wgen you both are in middle of sex and he stops to have u finish. is because he is already done and wants u to get off.
or maybe he just wants to learn how u doit. since you know hour clit better than any 1.

[Asker]

Yeah b. c he has asked mebefore what he was doing to me. Was it doing anything for me: I mean I do moan at times. But he looks up at me to see if I like what he is doing or not. N other times I feel like it is b. c of p*rn an hpw much he watches it. I mean we watch a few together before an one when we last hooked up. N it was one p*rn where some girl was playing with her self. N the look on his face he was like a fog in heat tung all hanging out lol. N he looked at me an was like. Oh yea that what I want you to do.

[countrydude]

I think he watches too much p*rn honestly. but Im still leaning on my thought is he is insecure weather he is gettn u off. next thing he may do is ask u to play wit toys in front of him. does he jack off when u do these things? if noit. turn the tables on him. tell him to stroke it for you. ( only if your comfortable). then when he does get up close abd res on your elbows lol see how he acts latter regardin this

[Asker]

Yeah he jacks off in front of me, even if I ask him he dose. N Thank god he hasn't asked me about tops yet. Well he has but he said. if he brought me one, I might start using it moree then his cock. lpl I mean that was like last year months back- so ifk he hasn't brought sex up yet. So hope not- and I notice he alwayss seem to put his finger in my mouth. Or want me to suck on them- kind of weird. wtf. Eeven tho I have a few times before in the past.

[Asker]

I mean he havn't talked about sex tops so.

[countrydude]

i woul be suking your fingers after u dipped em side of you. or licked my fingers. I dont want to waist a drop of any pussy juice. i think he just watches too much porn.. does it make you feel uncomfortable when he jacks off in front of you? 1thing I suggest is nect time ge asks u to finger your self. tell him the things he foes best to get u off and you rather he did those. and u dont want to finger urself.

[Asker]

No. Mmm I love watching him jack off

[Asker]

An no not really in front him. I don't. :)

[countrydude]

thats good:).

[countrydude]

thanks by the way for most helpful tagg. xoxox

[Asker]

No. Thank You: I learn something every time. N your welcome ;).

[countrydude]

my pleasure ;)

[Plato]

It's just hot. Sometimes when a girl's too good to be true, you just want to see her pleasure herself.

[TheNewClassic]

It turns him on seeing you pleasuring and enjoying yourself.

[Asker]

Yeah I think that what it coulfd be as well lol.

[JennieF]

I guess it turns him on.

[stillsingle]

We call it as porn!!

[Anonymous]

guys are visually and physically sexual

[Asker]

Yea. So you do't think it can also be that he is older. I feel a bit bad in ways b. c see I been with more people then he has. But he has been around longer then I have. :(

[Opinion Owner]

guys who are young like that too, but all things aside just have fun, and teach him your sexuality, guys love that