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Sexual Health Why guys can't finger me properly?
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I never met one who could do it properly but my friends did and I feel like I should lower my expectations...
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1 49Your friend fingered you but having them do it again will lower your expectations?
Why don't you go to the friend that fingered you good for the mean time for a fix for the moment
How do you want to be fingered?
verbalize, sex is better when you communicate so your partner can learn your body
U let a guy friend do that to u?
why not try teaching the guys so they know and you get better results... win win
They haven't learned the technique
I am sure you will find a guy that fingers and earth you out like a pro! Don't give up hope
Anatomy.
What type guys you with easy to do first thing learn as a teen 1
Probably the same reason girls suck at giving hand jobs
Yeah, no kidding.
I don’t know why they can’t do that
Start giving lessons, lol
Don’t lose hope. You’ll too get one who’s great on fingering.
Men do NOT have a pussy, so it is like invading a foreign country, we get lost, we cannot read the street signs, and nobody wants to tell us how to get to where we want to go... and then she gets upset because we are lost
As a man I really want to learn to finger a girl properly, but I need instruction from the girl. I understand that even Lesbians ask for guidance in this matter. If you women want good fingering, please have the courtesy to guide in in this and not complain that we don’t know how to do this.
You could teach them
Because we don’t got the same materials a lot of girls don’t know how to wank guys off gentle strokes ladies don’t yank or squeeze
I love licking balls, going up till the head and going down till I can take it. So even for handjobs I would be gentle. I personally have very soft hands so when I give handjobs I try to be gentle and look all scared and innocent.
Teach them lol..
Also my fingers are ready for training teacher..
We need to communicate and help your partner get to know your vulva
Why don't you take the time to show them how, and what you like?