Why is he not responding after I send him a sexy video?

[Anonymous]

I was texting this guy for a while and we were sexting a bit after months of talking. He said he really wanted me to make him a video of me masturbating. It took me a while but I finally did. He didin't answer since last night. I sent him a text this morning asking if he got it he replied that he did but didin't look at it yet because he was out drinking last night. Now its been a few hours and he still hasn't said anything. I feel stupid, I don't know what I did wrong. Is he just busy or did I do something wrong? It was all his idea...

[TheStatenIslandFairy]

For future reference, don't ever do something like that for a guy you're not in a serious relationship with or married to. However, what's done is done and there really isn't any point of lecturing you like I'm your mother.

What you can do right now is just relax. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. It sounds like it's still a little early to tell if he played you, so I'd give him the rest of the day to get back to you. You said he went drinking with friends, maybe he's just really hungover and plans to open it tonight or when he feels better? Either way, give him a bit more time. He also might just be trying to think of a really good response.

[Anonymous]

It is always an extremely bad idea filming yourself and giving the video to anyone, especially a guy, and I am just assuming this, that you don't know, because you never know where that video can end up, he is probably just busy, don't overthink it too much, it's done, nothing you can do now

[Izzex3]

Hmmm... I'd be careful with that.
My girl friend made one for one of my boy friends and he showed it to everyone
& bragged about it (her face also wasn't in it, but everyone knew it was her).
I don't know what your guy is thinking.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

This is high risk behavior to send someone this type of video
he could put it up on the Internet if he wanted to

[Asker]

my face is not in it

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yeah me and some girl masturbated long time ago on web-cam together but that was all she looked at my d**k while i got off for also i did a high risk behavior to but strange he never got back to you

[Gemstone2411]

He's got what he wanted from you.

You served your purpose.

[that_genuine_guy]

or he showed it to all he's broskies. u shuld never do that sorta thing

[Asker]

my face is not in it

[Ihav2fart]

Lies, he was up all night busy masturbating.

[Asker]

Lol so why can't he at least say something or compliment my video. I'm really mad. Should I say something?

[Ihav2fart]

Because that'll mess up his flow and vibe. If it helps you chill out your rage then ya go talk to him about it. Don't be super confrontational though.

[jmmmfi]

He's probably to busy spanking it

[GingerFox12]

Even though your face was not in it if he told his friends it was you they might believe him. It's still a risk either way, and he should really at least say something. Weird that he didn't.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't do this, even if my face wasn't in it. He can still show people and say that it is you. Be careful with stuff like this next time.