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Why is it so hard for me to have sex?

i don't know but i think its extreme hard How do I become experienced in sex? :- (
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Superb Opinion

  • Sex is like food, everyone has different tastes and appetites so you need to find someone who likes what you like.

    But first you need to find out what you like and the first step is to explore your own and allow yourself explore your desires through fantasy without being inhibited or embarrassed etc.

    You really need some privacy for this so that you can feel free to enjoy the experience without concerning yourself with whether someone is going to walk in on you or hear you etc.

    This obviously might not be easy if you dont live alone so try to get as close to this as you can if your options are limited.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You're probably trying too much, or too hard.

    Sex is not about going through the motions. It's more about finding your joy and release.

    I had a couple of girls who wanted to try "everything" and it was really weird for her. She would try a few positions and then sit back and ponder. Then want to try another. It felt like she was going through a mental checklist. The other was just brutal like all sex but missionary was going to be banned tomorrow.

Most Helpful Girls

  • by.. practicing and having it.
    talk to your partner/s and experiment in technique.

    • what if he thinks i'm failing sex? im scary D:

    • then go find a supportive partner.

    • also hope you're ready for the thirsty scum of gag jumping into your dm boxes

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  • why hard? Find a man and have sex right away. what is holding you?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You have sex more often... standard rule is that practice makes perfect... but you have to have sex then try to get the guy to give you honest feed back. The issue is that most guy will not be honest about how you perform if they think that it might ruin their chances for more sex.

    So find a guy and have sex then ask him how you could make it better next time, and be open minded about experimentation... like anal, oral, toys, and role play.

  • By meeting someone you are comfortable and compatible with, someone you can trust and be open with.

    It’s about learning and exploring your limits, to do this you need to trust them and be able to communicate.

    Why are you finding it hard?

  • What particular aspects are you having trouble with?

  • Are you kidding me you're fucking gorgeous in your picture. It'd be nice to get to know you have some nice clean amazing sex with you and I fucking have a long time and love eating pussy I could definitely teach you some things and the fact that you're 19 and so damn hot you probably look amazing in person would love to talk to you why don't you send me a message private and we can talk about things

  • you need a wild, sadistic, bold, dominant OLDER DADDY like me to break you in and teach you the ropes. You're too young to be out here on your own as a female, you don't know what you're doing. You need a PURPOSE and older daddies like me will give you one.

  • u will as soon u meet guys.. they are always ready to bang u

    • its crazy?

    • u can follow me and we can talk in dm

    • okay

  • What do you mean? How is it hard?

  • You must not be ready for it yet? Experience comes with having lots of sex and knowing what you like and dislike.

  • I know how

    • how?

    • By having consensual sex with me

    • Lolㅤ

  • Practice

  • what do you find hard about it?

  • Why are you having a hard time having sex?

    • If I can't adapt to him while having sex, he will turn away from me...

    • Adapt to him?

    • @hellenamulle236 Find a man who loves you more than sex.

  • Really girls thought was no problem

    • ugh why?

    • Because guy are hitting on you and 90 % want sex

  • Wdym hard like technique or like u don’t know what to do

  • What you mean by hard?

  • Practice makes perfect

  • You look very hot so whats the problem?

    • i dont know its so hard

  • I'll tell you everything I know

    • what will you tell?

    • How to experience sex

  • Hard in what way? Experience helps, practice practice. But also communication. Talking to each other about each other's likes and dislikes. Everyone is different and likes different things. Also don't expect your first time with someone new to be good. Most of the time it won't be. It takes time to get to know each other and the sex becomes good/great over time.

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