Hi , I’m with my boyfriend now since one and half year , it used to be very good sexually in the beginning, but now he just want that I give him oral sex and anal, and even the anal sex is maybe one time in a month and vaginal sex one time in 6 months now or never, plus never reaching orgasm, or any at all and no foreplay ! I have been very patient and agreed to everything he said , I tried to have a talk about it to him but mostly about why we don’t have sex as often anymore! He doesn’t like it! We had a baby recently as well so I thought this could be the problem too so that’s why I stayed patient, his arguments is mostly about because our baby is in the same room as us or in our bed, but that is totally understandable, because we can’t have sex when we have a baby in the same room! But the thing is we live in a huge house with 6 bedrooms and 9 sleeping beds in our house, so there’s plenty of room and space in our house, plus all the big sofas and launch places ! I have told him that we could have sex in other rooms but he says he just wants in our sleeping bed and of course that’s impossible! I never experienced this with anyone before him! This is totally new for me! So I started to think that he might not be attracted to me anymore, I tried to dress nicely and sometimes put some nice underwear to make him get connected to me but it’s working! He says he is stressed of work and I should find a way to play and give pleasure to myself! Other than that, he says he loves me strongly all the time and that I’m beautiful and planning vacations for us and all the other things. So I really don’t understand this intimacy part as I have never had any problems before with my previous relationships! Can someone help me out and tell me why he is acting like this?
I would really appreciate it! It is something that eating my mind on a daily basis and I just don’t know what to do and think anymore!
Xxx
Mehry
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