Why so many questions about dick size instead of what really gets women off?
MlleCakeInfluencer
Only about 25-30% of women can orgasm from anything you do with your dick. It takes direct clitoral stimulation to get women off, and the penis is exceptionally ineffective at doing that, no matter how large.
If you want to know how to satisfy us, quit worrying about your dick size, and instead step-up your oral/manual stimulation game, and learn how and when to introduce a vibrator or other sex toy to save time and effort.
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Yes, we know there is a vocal but small minority of size queens. Why do you listen to THEM and not US? (Noting the many female respondents so far.)
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Also worth noting: In the human female, it has ben decisively shown that ONLY the clitoris actually does the thing we call "orgasm". The vagina, the rectum, the nipples, and other places people claim they have orgasms actually do not have the mechanism for orgasm, even if they contribute to pleasurable feelings. If a woman had an orgasm, it's her clitoris that did it.
Preach!!! 👏👏 I remember telling one of my friends that we can orgasm without penetration at all just from the clitoris and his mind was blown 😂😂 and this was a 20 year old dude having lots of regular sex with many partners. Once again sex ed failing again..
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InsertCoolNameXper 5
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Because men judge other men on their dick size. It's like how some girls with small breasts are embarrassed about it.
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goldcherryXper 2
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You’re totally right.
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JimmyAldersonXper 4
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The meme is amazing 😂 and I never got why guys want to talk about or brag about the size of their dicks. And I agree with you 1,000% clitoral stimulation is definitely more enjoyable for the lady than having some guy pounding away on her, maybe they should watch less porn.
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DanielSon3823Xper 2
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Probably because some guys actually got told they were too small to do anything with it.
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AynsofYoda
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Well I do believe studies have found most average size me think they are well below average So it is for many a great question of confidence Same as it is with women and breast size Having small or believing you have small equipment lowers your sense of self worth which can lead to overcompensation or social isolation It is just the way of things
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MlleCake
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But why not shift your concern to what actually gets women off?
Aynsof
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Well personally I quite like oral sex but it is in my experience at least and I am sure for many others not sufficient It sounds good on paper but does not work out in reality I suppose because there are other aspects to it than merely the orgasm part... there is for men as well just shooting off a load doesn't equate to it having been a good experience
dolemite68Guru
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I always felt bad for the girls that can’t cum from good d alone lmao some of the grumpiest girls I’ve ever met 😂😂😂
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MlleCake
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You shouldn't feel bad. That's just not how the clitoris really works. It's a misunderstanding that just penis in vagina sex will be enough. It's not enough for MOST women.
dolemite68
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Even in bed it takes more to please a woman 😂😂😂
MlleCake
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Not more. Just not the same thing as what men think it takes.
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dolemite68
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U don’t think women have an easier time pleasing us in bed in general? 🤔 is say we’re pretty easy to figure out in that aspect
dolemite68
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*i’d
MlleCake
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You think you are but you aren't. Every guy needs something different. We have to learn you all over again.
dolemite68
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I think this is u playing the victim and saving face again as always 🤔
MlleCake
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What does this have to do with victimhood or saving face?
dolemite68
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I’ve never once heard u admit that women have it easier in a lot of ways
AM-205Explorer
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I like the way you think... We men are just too picky!
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torwulfXper 6
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Dick size is easy to measure.
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samsson773Xper 3
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I have come to master this art lol
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PhilyouupGuru
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Because the guys asking are immature and really dont know any better..
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Romeo0071234Xper 6
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I wouldn't say all guys.. maybe the young and inexperienced. I dont think I have the biggest dick.. but I know it's not the smallest.. and its not something I think about tbh. I think more of how I appear to a women and being clean, etc.. I am sure most women would not breakup with a guy cause his dick size. If that was the case there would be hell of small dick guys running around single I'm sure lol.. but I can imagine it gets to be a pain being asked this by most guys. Which is how I feel when women go over board with how concerened they are about their weight etc.. I think it's an insecurity thing.. men have it about their dick sizes and women have it about looks, weight etc.
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dansxXper 3
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I have been told many times how women can't have orgasm until they are with me. All my women have had powerful orgasms and I love how that feels. It's better than mine.
What I do is work it in stages. First backrub to relax. Leads to kissing and cuddling. That leads to heavy petting and foreplay. I don't even bother inserting until she has the first orgasm.
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glenns
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This is the standard approach. I must emphasize, however, the importance of going down on her. Such an activity must be raised to the level of high art. If the man becomes the virtuoso, he'll have her in contractions in just minutes; her moans will be so sensual and emphatic that every neighbor within earshot will have his dick in his hand... If the reader has a big dick, he may want to try the approach in these posts...
pizzalovershouseMaster
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i know that size doesn't matter i use to but i use to think average was bad that girls want way above average but i learnt thats not true eay before coming on here cuz i talked to many female friends who were open an dint mind me asking an they were, much older an exsperanced so i never talk about the size on my post an i try to adk sum intamcy questions in a none threating way to girls cuz i beleive it can be asked nice by guys an i know it takes clitoral stimulation for climax its just i dint know sum stuff that your diagrams showed so you have sught me a few new things about girls, anatomy
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pizzalovershouse
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plus i just wished more girls would share the stuff like you do to learn an be able to ask freely with out sounding dumb or dirty for asking
2opazGuru
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Tiny penis humiliation gets girls off
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roseypopxoxXper 5
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Ikr😫
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samhayneXper 4
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Ok. There are PLENTY of things you women are irrationally insecure about and will continue to be, regardless of how many times we try to assure you that they are of no consequence to us.
Penis size is like that. Plus the fact that most women do say they want a bigger guy.
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MlleCake
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Most women don't say that though. Look at all the women on this question agreeing with me.
samhayne
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Its one aspect of our sexual marketability over which we have no control. A man can always improve his technique, but he's basically stuck with his size. That's why it is a potentially vulnerable point for us. If they've heard even one woman say bigger is better, and believe me, we've ALL heard it, many, many times (even in this thread) the concern is going to linger forever.
SurelyGuru
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That is all I have and there ain't no more! So why is it so hard for women to tell men what feels good to them? Other than "What you are doing feels good"?
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MlleCake
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Good question. Mostly, it's that men find it unpleasant to be given direction.
Surely
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The better you make her feel, the more likely you will get a repeat performance. That's my motto.
DanOh2018Yoda
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Oh I've known this for a while. While my cocksmanship is certainly good, it's my skillful hands that get me invited back. Lol 😂
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rahul_24Explorer
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Even I agree, dunno why guys say big dicks are best. It's about how you use it. Quality over quantity
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22 94Preach!!! 👏👏 I remember telling one of my friends that we can orgasm without penetration at all just from the clitoris and his mind was blown 😂😂 and this was a 20 year old dude having lots of regular sex with many partners. Once again sex ed failing again..
Because men judge other men on their dick size. It's like how some girls with small breasts are embarrassed about it.
You’re totally right.
The meme is amazing 😂 and I never got why guys want to talk about or brag about the size of their dicks. And I agree with you 1,000% clitoral stimulation is definitely more enjoyable for the lady than having some guy pounding away on her, maybe they should watch less porn.
Probably because some guys actually got told they were too small to do anything with it.
Well I do believe studies have found most average size me think they are well below average
So it is for many a great question of confidence
Same as it is with women and breast size
Having small or believing you have small equipment lowers your sense of self worth which can lead to overcompensation or social isolation
It is just the way of things
But why not shift your concern to what actually gets women off?
Well personally I quite like oral sex but it is in my experience at least and I am sure for many others not sufficient It sounds good on paper but does not work out in reality I suppose because there are other aspects to it than merely the orgasm part... there is for men as well just shooting off a load doesn't equate to it having been a good experience
I always felt bad for the girls that can’t cum from good d alone lmao some of the grumpiest girls I’ve ever met 😂😂😂
You shouldn't feel bad. That's just not how the clitoris really works. It's a misunderstanding that just penis in vagina sex will be enough. It's not enough for MOST women.
Even in bed it takes more to please a woman 😂😂😂
Not more. Just not the same thing as what men think it takes.
U don’t think women have an easier time pleasing us in bed in general? 🤔 is say we’re pretty easy to figure out in that aspect
*i’d
You think you are but you aren't. Every guy needs something different. We have to learn you all over again.
I think this is u playing the victim and saving face again as always 🤔
What does this have to do with victimhood or saving face?
I’ve never once heard u admit that women have it easier in a lot of ways
I like the way you think... We men are just too picky!
Dick size is easy to measure.
I have come to master this art lol
Because the guys asking are immature and really dont know any better..
I wouldn't say all guys.. maybe the young and inexperienced. I dont think I have the biggest dick.. but I know it's not the smallest.. and its not something I think about tbh. I think more of how I appear to a women and being clean, etc.. I am sure most women would not breakup with a guy cause his dick size. If that was the case there would be hell of small dick guys running around single I'm sure lol.. but I can imagine it gets to be a pain being asked this by most guys. Which is how I feel when women go over board with how concerened they are about their weight etc.. I think it's an insecurity thing.. men have it about their dick sizes and women have it about looks, weight etc.
I have been told many times how women can't have orgasm until they are with me. All my women have had powerful orgasms and I love how that feels. It's better than mine.
What I do is work it in stages. First backrub to relax. Leads to kissing and cuddling. That leads to heavy petting and foreplay. I don't even bother inserting until she has the first orgasm.
This is the standard approach. I must emphasize, however, the importance of going down on her. Such an activity must be raised to the level of high art. If the man becomes the virtuoso, he'll have her in contractions in just minutes; her moans will be so sensual and emphatic that every neighbor within earshot will have his dick in his hand... If the reader has a big dick, he may want to try the approach in these posts...
i know that size doesn't matter i use to but i use to think average was bad that girls want way above average but i learnt thats not true eay before coming on here cuz i talked to many female friends who were open an dint mind me asking an they were, much older an exsperanced so i never talk about the size on my post an i try to adk sum intamcy questions in a none threating way to girls cuz i beleive it can be asked nice by guys an i know it takes clitoral stimulation for climax its just i dint know sum stuff that your diagrams showed so you have sught me a few new things about girls, anatomy
plus i just wished more girls would share the stuff like you do to learn an be able to ask freely with out sounding dumb or dirty for asking
Tiny penis humiliation gets girls off
Ikr😫
Ok. There are PLENTY of things you women are irrationally insecure about and will continue to be, regardless of how many times we try to assure you that they are of no consequence to us.
Penis size is like that. Plus the fact that most women do say they want a bigger guy.
Most women don't say that though. Look at all the women on this question agreeing with me.
Its one aspect of our sexual marketability over which we have no control. A man can always improve his technique, but he's basically stuck with his size. That's why it is a potentially vulnerable point for us. If they've heard even one woman say bigger is better, and believe me, we've ALL heard it, many, many times (even in this thread) the concern is going to linger forever.
That is all I have and there ain't no more! So why is it so hard for women to tell men what feels good to them? Other than "What you are doing feels good"?
Good question. Mostly, it's that men find it unpleasant to be given direction.
The better you make her feel, the more likely you will get a repeat performance. That's my motto.
Oh I've known this for a while. While my cocksmanship is certainly good, it's my skillful hands that get me invited back. Lol 😂
Even I agree, dunno why guys say big dicks are best. It's about how you use it. Quality over quantity