Why so many questions about dick size instead of what really gets women off?
MlleCakeInfluencer
Only about 25-30% of women can orgasm from anything you do with your dick. It takes direct clitoral stimulation to get women off, and the penis is exceptionally ineffective at doing that, no matter how large.
If you want to know how to satisfy us, quit worrying about your dick size, and instead step-up your oral/manual stimulation game, and learn how and when to introduce a vibrator or other sex toy to save time and effort.
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Yes, we know there is a vocal but small minority of size queens. Why do you listen to THEM and not US? (Noting the many female respondents so far.)
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Also worth noting: In the human female, it has ben decisively shown that ONLY the clitoris actually does the thing we call "orgasm". The vagina, the rectum, the nipples, and other places people claim they have orgasms actually do not have the mechanism for orgasm, even if they contribute to pleasurable feelings. If a woman had an orgasm, it's her clitoris that did it.
The neck on the side. Underneath the jaw. The earlobe. Nipple/areola. Underboob. Biting the bottom lip. Inner thigh. Running hands on legs and shoulders. Fingers down the spine.
I've found all of that to work on women both during and before sex. And, yes, they orgasmed just off that. So maybe it's just you that's obsessed with your clit?
In my experience, it seems to be the amount of raw passion I put into each act that gets women off the most. Of course, they've always enjoyed my "equipment" too. Lol 😉
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thevoid90Xper 5
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Ok what really gets women off? I dont care about size, that can't be changes
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doitsonXper 4
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The sole reasons i have come across with females not being able to cum is... them not being able to be comfortable and into it mentally. And inexperience, them not knowing their own body.
The girls who have had both of those in my experience never needed the oral but love it too. One girl said she hated oral at the start.
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DM0806Xper 2
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Guys are self conscious about it. It's always a competition between guys in school and growing up and it sticks with them.
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Guardian45Guru
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I've never had any problem, after I discovered how good pussy tastes!
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19irish76Yoda
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I’ll admit there is a visual appeal with a well endowed guy. But it’s more what he can do with his mouth and hands. I could as easily get off by going down on a woman as I could through penetration.
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JohnFrostXper 5
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I think the debate of penis size is more about potential. You are not a God in bed if you have a big duck but you can't train a big duck you can train all other parts. I don't think anybody is desiring that. Also it's a direct representation of someone manhood. Like how women compare boobsize.
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austinboothYoda
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My bet is a lot of men are scared they're to small.
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RumEroXper 7
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because sometimes it has nothing to do with women
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MlleCake
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So why keep asking US?
RumEro
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To feel good about themselves
Daphne93Xper 5
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Cause it’s about ego.
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EastleyXper 3
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Well if you do it right, you can use a penis at the right angle and gett clitoral and vaginal stimulation (idk how, i just know that when i do it she grabs my shoulders and opens her mouth wide.) However, oral stimulation Ann's manual are important too. Never neglect any erogenous zone.
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sexcrazed123Explorer
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not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean :-P
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OralMayhemXper 5
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Well being 6'4 and having a 6'7 black grandfather I can tell you having a large penis is NOT a benefit sexually. You'll not find a girl that can physically take it all without having her uterus bruised so you will never know what it's like to be completely inside your lover. And forget about quickies because although the width may feel good for her, your gonna be waiting for her to dialate wide enough to take it. Also don't expect to ever get a blowjob unless she's like a snake and can dislocate her jaw. So your gonna be stuck with hand jobs the rest of your life...
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hungsolow82Xper 3
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I've got my own certain way of getting getting women off by eating pussy and a little trick to when fucking 😏 to squirt hard
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Wntriscoming13Xper 2
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Already done, been perfecting my head game for 20 years
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CubaPirateMaster
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Well said. It isn't always the guy with the best tools who's the best at the job
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Glen68Guru
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So true 🖐
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DesuyoneeXper 6
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mine is 5 inch, is it enough? ;DDDD
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Desuyonee
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dont downrate me!!! give me the fucin answerrrr ;DDDDDDDD
NachowedgieGuru
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Because it's the male sex organ
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MlleCake
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And?
Nachowedgie
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Wow, you're simple
MlleCake
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You didn't explain why that matters. I'm aware of what a penis is, but you felt the need to tell me. Who is simple here?
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Nachowedgie
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We are men, we come with a penis nothing else, we don't come with vibrators and whatnot attached. So we ask questions about dick size because that's all we have to evaluate
Nachowedgie
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So yes, you are the simpleton.
MlleCake
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How would I have read your mind to know what you were referring to? Now that you have explained, your point is clear. It wasn't before.
SeppelsonGuru
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I am happy that my girlfriend don't needs clitoral stimulation
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MlleCake
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Actually, if she orgasms, it's because her clitoris was stimulated adequeately. Only the clitoris has the physical capability to orgasm. It's the only thing the clitoris does. It's just like the penis that way. When a man has an orgasm, it's with his penis. the clitoris and the penis begin as the same organ in the fetus, and develop differently in the second stage of pregnancy.
Seppelson
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How can that be if I didn't do anything at her clitoris and she didn't do anything too?
BubbaTyre
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Mmhhh... not a usual commentor, but just wanted to throw out there that orgasm isn't solely provoked by any one point on the body. Both men and women can achieve orgasm through stimuli of various physical locale, as well as mental.
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yougurt
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@BubbaTyre The clit goes deeper (like an inside penis) so it's possible to estimulate it throught the vagina. It seems that the orgasm came from vaginal estimulation, but it was actually clit estimulation from the inside (instead of the typical outside estimulation).
MlleCake
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@BubbaTyre While people can feel pleasure from various points on the body, it is only the penis and the clitoris that contain the actual mechanism by which to have an orgasm. Some men and women get so turned on it takes very little physical stimulation to orgasm - maybe even none, since we can orgasm in our sleep from just dreams. But it is still an action of the clitoris - the orgasm, in women.
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I've found all of that to work on women both during and before sex. And, yes, they orgasmed just off that. So maybe it's just you that's obsessed with your clit?
In my experience, it seems to be the amount of raw passion I put into each act that gets women off the most. Of course, they've always enjoyed my "equipment" too. Lol 😉
Ok what really gets women off? I dont care about size, that can't be changes
The sole reasons i have come across with females not being able to cum is... them not being able to be comfortable and into it mentally. And inexperience, them not knowing their own body.
The girls who have had both of those in my experience never needed the oral but love it too.
One girl said she hated oral at the start.
Guys are self conscious about it. It's always a competition between guys in school and growing up and it sticks with them.
I've never had any problem, after I discovered how good pussy tastes!
I’ll admit there is a visual appeal with a well endowed guy. But it’s more what he can do with his mouth and hands. I could as easily get off by going down on a woman as I could through penetration.
I think the debate of penis size is more about potential. You are not a God in bed if you have a big duck but you can't train a big duck you can train all other parts. I don't think anybody is desiring that. Also it's a direct representation of someone manhood. Like how women compare boobsize.
My bet is a lot of men are scared they're to small.
because sometimes it has nothing to do with women
So why keep asking US?
To feel good about themselves
Cause it’s about ego.
Well if you do it right, you can use a penis at the right angle and gett clitoral and vaginal stimulation (idk how, i just know that when i do it she grabs my shoulders and opens her mouth wide.) However, oral stimulation Ann's manual are important too. Never neglect any erogenous zone.
not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean :-P
Well being 6'4 and having a 6'7 black grandfather I can tell you having a large penis is NOT a benefit sexually. You'll not find a girl that can physically take it all without having her uterus bruised so you will never know what it's like to be completely inside your lover. And forget about quickies because although the width may feel good for her, your gonna be waiting for her to dialate wide enough to take it. Also don't expect to ever get a blowjob unless she's like a snake and can dislocate her jaw. So your gonna be stuck with hand jobs the rest of your life...
I've got my own certain way of getting getting women off by eating pussy and a little trick to when fucking 😏 to squirt hard
Already done, been perfecting my head game for 20 years
Well said. It isn't always the guy with the best tools who's the best at the job
So true 🖐
mine is 5 inch, is it enough? ;DDDD
dont downrate me!!! give me the fucin answerrrr ;DDDDDDDD
Because it's the male sex organ
And?
Wow, you're simple
You didn't explain why that matters. I'm aware of what a penis is, but you felt the need to tell me. Who is simple here?
We are men, we come with a penis nothing else, we don't come with vibrators and whatnot attached. So we ask questions about dick size because that's all we have to evaluate
So yes, you are the simpleton.
How would I have read your mind to know what you were referring to? Now that you have explained, your point is clear. It wasn't before.
I am happy that my girlfriend don't needs clitoral stimulation
Actually, if she orgasms, it's because her clitoris was stimulated adequeately. Only the clitoris has the physical capability to orgasm. It's the only thing the clitoris does. It's just like the penis that way. When a man has an orgasm, it's with his penis. the clitoris and the penis begin as the same organ in the fetus, and develop differently in the second stage of pregnancy.
How can that be if I didn't do anything at her clitoris and she didn't do anything too?
Mmhhh... not a usual commentor, but just wanted to throw out there that orgasm isn't solely provoked by any one point on the body. Both men and women can achieve orgasm through stimuli of various physical locale, as well as mental.
@BubbaTyre The clit goes deeper (like an inside penis) so it's possible to estimulate it throught the vagina. It seems that the orgasm came from vaginal estimulation, but it was actually clit estimulation from the inside (instead of the typical outside estimulation).
@BubbaTyre While people can feel pleasure from various points on the body, it is only the penis and the clitoris that contain the actual mechanism by which to have an orgasm. Some men and women get so turned on it takes very little physical stimulation to orgasm - maybe even none, since we can orgasm in our sleep from just dreams. But it is still an action of the clitoris - the orgasm, in women.