Why are there a lot of feminine men these days? what is the deal with these guys acting like girls?

Now,by feminine men,I don't mean guys who shave their chest or guys who are concerned more about their grooming.(so metrosexual is not being feminine nor is having a girlie face or a weak body feminine).I am talking about those guys who talk in a girlish manner,they walk like females and the general way they present themselves is quite feminine,you know their hand movements and stuff...(but they are not gay for sure).So I am curious what's up with these guys...?Lot of them are straight(not gay or bisexual)but I see more & more of these kinda guys cropping up everywhere.
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Girls so what attracts you more?the effeminate or the more macho men?and why?
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  • Actually I saw one today :) he is speaking like girl he is not gay or bisexual he don't even know something about sex I they were and he was with a girl I know them both from low school like before 10 years

    there are some people which can't be man and can't be woman and they act like woman and this is stupid I prefer to die better than be guy like that lol

  • Yup,there are guys like these.But I never found such guys attractive.

    I always prefer masculine men

  • metros are worse than feminine men.

    and most times feminine men are like that, its cause they talk to and hang out with mostly girls or just grew up with girls.

  • because people are a lot more open about things like being gay or transexual, like its not classed as inapropriate like it used to be, and humans base a lot on looks and for some reason that's connected with being a girl like caring about how you look. I guess they act that way because they don't feel like men have to be men they can be who ever they want. if that makes sence.

  • So many boys raised without a father. Simple.

    • i donno man...but lot of these guys I have seen have very alpha fathers...

    • Maybe they make an effort to not be like that.

    • good point

  • who or what is to say what is masculine and what is feminine?

  • Guys probably want to let the girl be in charge. its wimpy I know.. but sadly there isn't many strong men unless there all about sex.

  • I think it is because of the culture these days or due to the fact that they didn't have a strong male male figure while growing up. I've known a few that are not gay at all and act like this only to find out that they were raised by single moms.

  • I am married and I shave my legs. I look at it this way. Your body.

  • I know what you mean -- my ex has more emotions than I will ever conjure up.. even on PMS. I tell him that "he's the girl and I'm the guy" -- seriously.. he has all the issues the girl should have and I have all the issues a guy could have. It's ridiculous -- I now know how to NOT suffocate a guy specifically thanks to my ex.

    • Agreed., I'M the female, HE'S supposed to be the man-!

  • OMG I know exactly what you mean... sometimes I'm like, wow, he's more of a girl than me... I don't understand this at all, because it doesn't attract me... I mean, what's the point of it, I like men to be men, and not like another woman, he makes me feel like he's very uhmm ... WEAK?

    • My ex uses eye liner now... I'm glad we broke up...seriously -.- I LOVE THE NATURAL LOOK ON MEN...

  • All those are homosexuals trying to hide their sexuality